Father Time said:
Mr F. said:
hazabaza1 said:
So is The Escapist just going "hey guys we need more traffic, make stuff that's guaranteed to create arguments" to their content creators now?
Aww, fuck it, I will bite.
You know, I cannot from any real perspective see how this comic will create an argument. It is quite simply pointing out that "Radical" in this particular context does not mean what many attribute it to mean.
But it does though. Radical [insert ideology here] means "an extreme viewpoint about [same ideology]". Just because you add feminist doesn't change that. It could describe a particular school of thought, but that becomes a second definition, it doesn't suddenly override the first.
Mr F. said:
Now, if we wanted a comic that could create an argument AND make a decent point, how about we run one on how the Patriarchy is incredibly damaging to men as well as women, particularly with the ridiculous, and many times utterly contradictory, ways men are expected to act (Violent, Gentle, Predator, Kind blah blah blah).
And then I'd point out that patriarchy is not the same thing as 'a society with gender roles'. Hypothetically anyway.
Well, No, you are quite right. A society could have gender roles without patriarchy.
However, the dominant societies on this particular planet have patriarchy and gender roles that are so interlinked it becomes almost impossible to separate one from the other. So whilst theoretically you are correct, the reality is far from the theoretical standpoint.
The patriarchy as a concept is damaging both to the people that are being most affected negatively, women (As the argument usually ends there) however, for many men, such as myself, it is damaging because it molds us in such a way as to perpetuate itself. Its not a grand conspiracy, its just what has progressively happened over many, many years. Honestly, I cannot find myself too angry when a young man, or simply a poorly educated man, acts like a sexist wanker. Because that is how they are raised to act, that is how they are expected to act.
Men are expected to be dicks. We are also expected to hate men who are dicks. These days, we are both expected to act like sexual predators and decry those very same actions. A man is supposed to be gentle and kind, yet aggressive and violent when roused. We are supposed to show little to no emotion, unless that emotion is anger in which case we should express that with gusto. Is this down to gender roles, purely and simply? I would argue against that.
I would argue that a man who "Jokily" pretended to grope my sister is a product of the system we live in and a poorer man due to his lack of understanding. He was created and molded by the patriarchy we are all living in. It is damaging for us, damaging for anyone who lives slightly outside of the norm. I would argue that a man who is seen to be crying being called weak is wrong, I would argue that the statement "Boys will be Boys" if kids get into a fight is wrong. But this is really not the place for this particular discussion.
Perhaps we need another thread that will get derailed by extremists on both sides. As for the nitty gritty of the comic?
Well, its all semantics really. Some people, like myself, believe it is making a fair point and think people should just expand their vocabulary. People like you disagree. Funnily, this is one of the few times when both of us are, objectively, accurate.
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Father Time said:
(yeah patriarchy doesn't mean a conspiracy, blah blah blah, it's an emotionally laden bullshit piece of rhetoric that brings up images of a conspiracy though so they should stick with that).
Yeah, No, do not reply to my response. Do not attempt to talk to me again. I consider this discussion over. I am really, REALLY tired of believing, for half a second, I might be able to have a rational discussion with someone about this on this site. Everyone falls into two camps.
Moderately well educated and ignorant.
For the record, I am not meaning "Ignorant" in a way as to insult you. Yes, society currently values intelligence, whilst being amazingly anti-intellectual (Which, amusingly, you are currently being.) so it can be taken as an insult. I simply mean it as "Lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about something in particular.", in this case the patriarchy or the basic theories behind a lot of sociological theory.
Much like there is no pointing in a physicist discussing physics with a man who is ignorant of the theory, there is no point in a sociologist having a discussion about feminism with people who are ignorant of the theory.
I am done here.
There is nothing to be gained from conversing with you on any subject that has anything to do with feminism, sexism or any form of spinoff. Good day to you.