I acctully commented on her blog, heres what I wrote: (Warning big wall of text)
"For this comment I?m going to take some points from the article and respond. I?d also like to point out I am both a life long Gamer and in my third year of university (In England) studying psychology.
Frumpy Mom:
?All you have to do is ask any teacher about his or her students? critical thinking skills these days and you will hear a TORRENT of horror stories about kids who have lost the power to think.
Where do you think that?s coming from? Right. TV, computers and video games?
?Or poor parenting. Video games and technology is an easy outlet to attack for those parents who don?t or can?t see it is their own lack of parenting skills that leads to these problems (I?m not suggesting you Frumpy Mom are one of these people but they definatly exist) If parents don?t spend proper time with their children and take a personal intrest in their lives and education things will drop, this laid back style of parenting is more common in the modern world. (I suspect the Mom who phoned the police due to her son playing games was one of these types).
Frumpy Mom:
?I can?t help recalling this sweet boy who invited my son over for his birthday party. I walked into their home, which was dominated by a giant TV on which video games were playing. The so-called ?party? consisted of boys sitting around playing various games, plus cake.?
I?ve had party?s like this, even ones where everyone plays, but they did not lack interaction, far from it, I found that gaming acted as a bit of an icebreaker, there was a lot of talking and interaction caused by it. The Nintendo was called ?Wii? because it indicates more than one player, fun for all. Maybe next time you should attempt to join in and play the game yourself when this happens, don?t worry the controller won?t turn into Voldermort. Its not that interaction is dead at thsoe times it just takes on a different face, like the kind of interaction you get playing a board game.
Frumpy Mom:
?Video games are educational? Sorry, people, I do not believe for one second you are learning quantum physics while you are shooting down zombies.?
Not all games avalable are like Grand Theft Auto or Left 4 Dead
There are a significant number of brain training games around (paticularly on the DS such as The Professor Layton Games), also a lot of games like Portal which have puzzles where you have to use your brain to figure them out and complete the game.
?Video game addiction is becoming more and more recognized as a social problem, mostly for young men under the age of 30 with low self-esteem. There are even addiction clinics all over the world for guys who need help.?
The same can be said for many things such as execise. Their is such a thing as addiction to execise, but would you say execise is a product of an evil power, of course not! Moderation in anything is the key, and in moderation Video games can be fine improving coordination and getting rid of bottled up agression in a way that does not hurt anyone.
To summerise: Video game can have their benefits and are fine in moderation. Even when they become a problem they are a symtom of bigger issues (like poor parenting) rather than a cause. There are many types of games, not just shooters, but racers, puzzlers, sports and many more. Games are meant to be fun for all, its just occasionally the negative aspects get over magnified by the media leading to an attack on games due to a lack of understanding of the full topic, Almost like how centeries ago anyone involved in science would be burned for witchcraft and for being involved with The Devil, simply due to a lack of knoledge about what science is. Is it drastic, hysterical and controversal to compare the attack on videogames to witch burnings? I say only as drastic, hysterical and controversal as comparing video games to the Devil or Voldermort."