Chairman Miaow said:
I was just trying to think of a reason why guys so often seem to play women in video games.
My brother plays almost exclusively female characters, and I know he isn't alone. I honestly can't think of single good reason to, for me, all it would do is spoil the immersion as I'm NOT a girl. So, anyone who does play as a woman in games, why? Feel free to speculate even if you don't play a woman, but please try not to just descend into "COz ThEy ARe PerVS LoL!".
Because changing the gender of the protagonist significantly changes the tone of the narrative. Many actions and interactions take on a different meaning and a different feel when the gender is different. Don't believe me? Guy 1 punches Guy 2 in the face and knocks him out. vs. Girl punches guy in the face and knocks him out. See the difference? That's just one sentence, imagine an entire narrative.
Additionally, most games either give you the choice, or force you to play as a male. Should women not play Gears or War or Halo 1-3 just because the protagonists are male? Should guys not play Metroid? Breaking it down and saying that people should stick to their own gender characters is prohibitive and childish. If you personally prefer to play one way or another, fine, but there's no justification for expecting others to as well or degrading them when they do.
Frankly, I grew up having a lot of respect for women, and I feel they are significantly underrepresented in entertainment, but in games in particular. I've been playing Far Cry 2 lately and am seriously disappointed that among the mercs you interact with are a couple of female characters that you do not get the option of playing. All the male mercs are potential PCs but not the females. Why? It would make the game considerably more interesting if I could have a woman shooting the crap out of all these guys rather than "generic male merc #3204."
Most women in games are either love interests or sex symbols, and their personalities rarely see much variation. That's why FemShep was so popular. Her role was really written for a male character, but Jennifer Hale's performance brought it to life and gave her such a range of emotions and so much personality that she was extremely interesting to play.
TL;DR Changes the Narrative. Most games force you to play male already. Female NPC's lack depth.