Vern said:
Never had, never will. I'm an adult and I don't feel the need to run to mommy if someone upsets me.
That's all well and good, but it's not about being vindictive towards a bad person, it's just about upholding the standards of the community. It's not taddle-telling, or a cop-out to your own ability to defend yourself, failing to report something is damaging the system. When a breach of the rules goes unreported, and unpunished, it means that other moderated examples of that infraction are now in conflict with what a user sees. It stops a uniform standard of posting, it hurts quality control and it can often mean an arsehole of a user sticks around for ten times as long as he or she should.
The idea behind the Escapists moderation system (as I see it) is that a moderator can draw on all the information and resources possible to make an informed decision. When something goes unreported or unflagged, it means they start to run into error and it slows down what should be a fairly direct system: Screw up, get slapped. Giving a user time to form bad habits, get away with them, and eventually get themselves banned in one shot for crossing a line they never knew existed is unfortunate but inevitable. Report a post, however, and that person gets a stern warning, they may even go on to become a valued member of the community. And if another user sees such behavior going unpunished and untouched? Bad behavior, un-moderated, only leads to more of the same.
Not reporting might do good things for your personal integrity, but as a member of the community you're failing to be part of the only system for control we have. You
are the control, the
only control, you are the most powerful arm of the escapist moderation system and when you don't uphold your responsibility to report... the system doesn't work.
But really, the mods seem to patrol the threads pretty decently.
They find it so much more helpful when you report stuff.