Quadocky said:
GabeZhul said:
This is why we can't have a proper discussion about these things. Not because gamers are sexist, but because there is always at least one guy who jumps in and accuses everyone of sexism and derails any and all intelligent discourse just because the subject of the topic is a woman or in any way related to some flavor of feminism. It's both sad and incredibly infuriating.
this doesn't make any sense though. Are you saying that gamers cannot be sexist or are you saying that people who accuse others of being misogynistic or sexist causes people to be sexist? Please do explain.
You are confusing something there, though I have no idea how you are doing it since the quoted paragraph seems perfectly straight to me. Anyways:
My problem is that at this point legitimate discussions about legitimate topics, be it gender-representations in gaming or the implications of the Zoe Quinn debacle on the gaming press, are constantly getting derailed not by actual sexism from gamers, but people coming in with the preconceived notion that any topic related to a woman, feminism, or women in general
must be somehow fueled by misogyny and derail the thread by accusing everyone present (and the gaming community in general) as sexist. Aka, the threads don't get messed up by roving hordes of misogynists making derogatory comments, but people who presume that everyone else in the discussion in a closet misogynist.
There is really no argument there, it's just a huge, flaming ad hominem, whereas any dissenting opinion and criticism regarding the topic's subject is deemed to stem from the participants' inherent sexism and therefore considered invalid by the accuser, which in turn means that the discussion grinds to a halt since one side already has their "conclusion". Then, when someone naively tries to correct this notion or at least put it into perspective (vocal minorities, internet anonymity, etc.) it becomes a separate, often heated argument which derails the thread and completely destroys any chance of an actually productive discussion.
On the other hand I said nothing about no gamers being sexist or comments turning them sexist, so I have to throw the ball back into your court and ask you to please explain how you managed to read that into my post.