Relish in Chaos said:
Either way, "masturbating to the thought of sex with another human being" is just what porn is, only taken out of your brain and plonked onto the screen.
No, it isn't. It's masturbating to an object, to one or two holes that are attached to a body. There's a huge difference. Healthy, positive sex views the partner as a human being to relate with, not a piece of meat to use in a utilitarian fashion.
And you don't think some people aren't going to just fantasize about rape without the material available online anyway? Furthermore, since Rule 34 is a thing, "mainstream porn" is almost a meaningless phrase nowadays. It's not hard to find what you want with a quick Google search that takes less than a minute.
A lot of people jerk off to thoughts of raping children, but it's still bad to make child porn.
The way you're talking sounds to me as if you think porn is just this sea of violent choke and bukkake trash videos with angry men constantly hurling insults at crying women while jackhammering the holes of their cold shells, when that's not the case. Like, at all.
Not all porn is like that. However, pornography apologists are consistently understating the amount of material out there that does fit this mold; I'm trying to show the other side.
And I disagree with your notions of a "rape culture". It sounds just as stupid as the "gay lifestyle". Basically, unfounded assumptions with no physical evidence to support them. There isn't a "rape culture"; just a minority of macho dickheads who see any woman in a miniskirt as automatic, unconditional fuck-buddies.
In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances.
In a survey of 11 to 14 year-olds, 51% of the boys and 41% of the girls said forced sex was acceptable if the boy, "spent a lot of money" on the girl.
31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience.
65% of the boys and 47% of the girls said it was acceptable for a boy to rape a girl if they had been dating for more than six months.
In a survey of college students, 35% anonymously admitted that, under certain circumstances, they would commit rape if they believed they could get away with it.
One in 12 admitted to committing acts that met the legal definitions of rape, and 84% of men who committed rape did not label it as rape.
43% of college-aged men admitted to using coercive behavior to have sex, including ignoring a woman's protest, using physical aggression, and forcing intercourse.
15% acknowledged they had committed acquaintance rape; 11% acknowledged using physical restraints to force a woman to have sex.
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