Lack of Gay Character Options in RPGs "A Shame," Says BioWare Producer

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Whilst writing quality is of course very important, I like the fact that they at least attempt to write gay characters in the first place. I'd rather have poorly written romance across the board than to not even have them try. Gaming doesn't have to as exclusive as some people obviously wish it was. A lack of options doesn't make anything better, especially not in a game based around choice.
 

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You know, I don't get the hamfisted sexuality argument. I mean, I haven't seen that much of Dragon Age 2, but from what I've seen in it the characters don't go "Oh by the way did I mention that I'm gay? Because I'm gay," every three seconds. If a person's sexuality completely defined who they were, you literally should not be able to name anything else about them and they would bring it up every three seconds. And that would be an appallingly bad character. Again I haven't seen much, but I haven't seen anything like that from DA2, or really any Bioware games. Heck, Traynor in ME3 only off handily mentions that she's a lesbian if you go out of your way to woo her (And in the Citadel DLC). I just don't follow your argument.

Would be cool to see a non-romancible gay character though.
It's just incredibly jarring to see gay characters just saying they're openly gay as if there isn't some social stigma or anxiety about it. Even in areas were homosexuality is 100% accepted there's still heavy sense of caution and anxiety simply because it's not a common behavior and all the other social baggage that goes with it. This is why I consider Sky's relationship one of the best Bioware ever made because you really had to go out of your way as a male PC to get into a relationship with him. If you didn't do things right in dialogue by making him feel ok with the idea on being in love with another man, the romance would end. That's incredibly realistic for a lot of gay people.
All I have to say is...what's wrong with that? I'm currently writing a story where half of the characters in the military are female. The reaction is kind of a laid back "meh, she's a woman in a soldier, so what?" attitude. Not much attention drawn to it. I'm trying to inject feminist ideals into my story, but not in an in your face kind of way. In a passive, just putting it there and not drawing attention to it way. Just to make it feel natural. Just idly mention that one of my female characters regularly purchases the services of male prostitutes at the local brothel and have no one think it's a big deal. I've gotten a grand total of zero complaints, save for one person who says that he thinks the gender ratio is slightly skewered towards females, and that he prefers an even 50/50 split. Heck, I've even gotten a couple of female fans who say that they really like the way I write my female characters. It's idealized, but it's not bad. Frankly I think gay people absolutely love the idea of playing a game where they can go "That person is gay, so what?" A game where two gay men approach their relationship the exact way two heterosexual people would. Maybe it's just me, but if I was gay, I wouldn't play a game to remind myself of how much crap I had to put up with, I would play it to get away from it. Are there places for games that explore the stigma of being gay? Yes there are. But there are also places for the "I'm gay, big deal, who wants pizza" attitudes in game.
 

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I don't mind a gay character in a game IF this character is correctly written, which mean this character will not put his/her sexuality in front of my face with "you want to bang ?" (aka Anders in DA2).

I was more interested in Ashley in ME, because she had completely divergent and politically incorrect views (of course she lost them in the second game, and was even worse in the third): she was different (we don't see a lot of big racists in games today, worse: coupled with religious devotion). I thought for a moment to see her in Cerberus (a thing that could had been interesting).
It's not the sexuality of a character that should make a player interested in this character, it's part of it of course but it's that: a part. I'll not judge someone in front of me because is gay or not, being dumb or not is a more important thing to know about him/her.

And each time i see Bioware make interview about gay character (and gay rights), it seem their characters are, the majority of time, written around their sexuality and it began to be a commercial argument, a mean to advertise their games. Each time, just before a launch, we have several articles, interviews speaking about sexuality. I don't mind them but it's just a part (and normally, a little one) of the full game.

The only thing they showed was cutscenes, CGI and combat, combat, combat. It's an RPG, where is the story ? The choices and consequences ?

It's just a way for them to advertise the game, which is a sad thing. IMO of course (and i support LGB rights: we don't have to judge someone on a detail of his/her lifeand this detail should not lead to a suppression of fundamental rights).
 

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I just don't think sex belongs in video games. I don't think it belongs in a lot of media. That's my opinion though...

I have seen many gay characters, but I have never seen one that I liked or found likeable. They were whores. Not because they were gay! But the characters themselves seemed only interested in flaunting, flirting and acting dirty. Possibly/Probably to show that they WERE gay, but still, why is that necessary?

Just put interesting characters into interesting situations. Sex doesn't really belong imo.

Lemme try to clarify... take a serious setting/tone/story. Add drama/dramatic events, to keep reader/watcher/players interest. Now have two characters bang. Then proceed onto having serious drama. Wait, did two people just have sex? Why did we need to read/watch/play that? Am I gonna see them take a dump? Eat breakfast? Blow their nose? Take a 'fart' break? Can't we just, get on with the STORY?
 

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I don't mind gay characters and relationships in video games, if it's done properly. By that I mean, either make the character gay from the start, or allow players to select their character's sexuality in character creator. If the developers are so adamant on creating a game with romance options, it would make perfect sense to give players that choice. And that includes asexuality as well for people who don't want a romance option at all. Look at what happened in Mass Effect 3. Male Shepard could only be straight for two fuckin' games. And then suddenly in Mass Effect 3 Kaidan and Cortez started hitting on my Shepard as if they didn't know that he doesn't play for their team. It totally killed the immersion for me.
 

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Nimcha said:
Kinda cool to see all this happening. It would be pretty awesome to have a game where almost all characters are gay! Why not! :D
Be careful what you wish for http://store.steampowered.com/app/312970/
 

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I don't have a problem with gay characters or relationships in games. What I have a problem with is when I have a male character and I'm trying to be nice to another male character when they are having a bad time of things and my only options they gave me are Flirt, Be Neutral and uncaring, or Be an Asshole.
You can't tell me that the non gay interaction of a guy going "Bro, that sucks but everything is going to be fine" does non exist between two straight men.

I'm not saying don't do it, but please focus on dialog options before including every possible relationship option.
 

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Dying_Jester said:
I don't have a problem with gay characters or relationships in games. What I have a problem with is when I have a male character and I'm trying to be nice to another male character when they are having a bad time of things and my only options they gave me are Flirt, Be Neutral and uncaring, or Be an Asshole.
You can't tell me that the non gay interaction of a guy going "Bro, that sucks but everything is going to be fine" does non exist between two straight men.

I'm not saying don't do it, but please focus on dialog options before including every possible relationship option.
Fucking Anders, you sociopathic little *****.

I've never seen someone take being friendzoned by a straight man so harshly.

I'm a big fan of the Witcher because it doesn't pull its punches. If Geralt was gay I only think he'd be substituting the women he bangs with men - of course we'd never see such a character because a straight protagonist is less offensive than a gay one. Like it or not but there are people out there who will not buy a game because the protagonist is gay but there are, by comparison, incredibly few people who will not buy a game because the protagonist is NOT gay.

That being said I never engaged Shepard or Hawke in a gay relationship because it doesn't interest me (? - I'm actually not sure why I never did, I just felt it would be worth the effort?) - but I'm glad the option was available for others to pursue.

The uncomfortable truth is that homosexuality is still a form of deviancy - in that it is literally deviant from the norm. There are people out there who don't like it but there's next to nobody who doesn't like heterosexuality. If you're a game company with a responsibility to shareholders you don't make a decision you KNOW will reduce sales.
 

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Ratty said:
I know you're being sarcastic, but the gender binary is total bullshit in general. All of the "scientific evidence" for a strict gender binary is based on ignoring or claiming as flawed the thousands of people who don't fall neatly into the x and y chromosome divisions they teach in school. The thousands of men with breasts and women with facial hair, supposedly "male" and "female" secondary sexual characteristics. And that's not even getting into those who would normally be designated transgender persons.
More games should let you combine X and Y chromosomes as you wish. Like XXX, XXY, X, XYY, XX and XY and if you want to play as a character with only Y you start the game dead.
 

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Abomination said:
The uncomfortable truth is that homosexuality is still a form of deviancy - in that it is literally deviant from the norm. There are people out there who don't like it but there's next to nobody who doesn't like heterosexuality. If you're a game company with a responsibility to shareholders you don't make a decision you KNOW will reduce sales.
I find a lot of heterosexual relationships/romances "meh" at best...not quite to the point of outright avoidance but still

at worst...the "female-centric" ones are the worst [i/]oh he's so mysterious! and borderline abusive! *SWOON*[/i]

to be fair there are 3 hetero romances in fiction that come to mind that actually stand out to me

interestingly one comes from a comic with a character called "ass-face" and where jesus's blood line has been "preserved" in the form of a couple of severely intellectually disabled people who throw their feces around

the other one involes lots of blood and gore....and a super hero orgie

the third is in a world with star nose mole gangters, sea hoarse head bounty hunter agents and a monster who had a massive set of Balls..(you really couldn't miss them)

...yeah
 

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BioWare makes a plea for inclusion and still receives hate. Ah the internet and especially the Escapist just won?t disappoint?

Dying_Jester said:
I don't have a problem with gay characters or relationships in games. What I have a problem with is when I have a male character and I'm trying to be nice to another male character when they are having a bad time of things and my only options they gave me are Flirt, Be Neutral and uncaring, or Be an Asshole.
QFT. Being nice too often equals being sexually interested. BioWare themselves is guilty of that as well if my memory serves me right.

Adam Jensen said:
allow players to select their character's sexuality in character creator
A pretty interesting idea. There is an argument that the cause of your sexual orientation is a genetic predisposition. The choice in the character creator could reflect that stance as the character creation is basically its birth.
However just to be clear here: It should not be used to create a world where there are only the sexual orientation the player seeks via his choice in the character creation. To give an example: You may have selected your Shepard as being straight however Cortez should still be gay regardless of your choice.
 

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Imo gay people should have an option to be gay even if the romance isnt that great.

It beats being forced to play a straight or asexual character which is a thing that doesnt work well when some people try to self insert and play their rpg characters as themselves in a different place.

I would hate to play a character that has extremely different views or behavior than me, that is why i enjoy bioware games that give us the choice in even small discussions to choose the one that is closest to us.

And i agree, they need to be careful of how they ll consider you a romance option, being nice and neutral should make them understand that you are not attracted to them but like them. I believe they learned from that Anders mistake.

Though you might have to accept that they might HIT on you just like in real life, people dont know you are straight and might hit on you if they are attracted to you, it is normal. You simply say you are straight, you like them as a person but not sexually.
 

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The problem you're having is you're applying the morality and values of the real world into fictional universes. Characters don't need to hide their sexuality in Bioware games because they don't seem to live in worlds where there's a stigma about that kind of thing.

I mean, what reason is there to assume people have a problem with homosexuality or bisexuality in Bioware's games? People are pretty open about it in Dragon Age, which implies there's no fear about some douchebag giving you grief about it. And not only does Mass Effect take place in the future, where such prejudices will hopefully die down significantly, it also takes place in a future where a bunch of bisexual blue women hold immense amounts of power; I doubt the Asari would be very tolerant of homophobia.

And, in these settings, it seems stupid to hide your sexuality because not only is the fear pretty much absent, but not doing so leads to confusion amongst those you're interested in and those you aren't interested in.
I'm aware, but it still doesn't make it feel relatable or realistic. No lack of stigma is in a game going to change the fact, at least for me, that there's a stigma in real which I find to be incredibly dissonant, especially since that stigma is due to the fact that homosexuality IS atypical and not something most people expect. If you want to have a presence of gay people for the sake of their presence, that's completely fine. However if you're doing it to make gay players feel part of the experience, which is what Bioware tries to do, taking out matters that most gay people face isn't going to help with getting that across.
 

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All I have to say is...what's wrong with that? I'm currently writing a story where half of the characters in the military are female. The reaction is kind of a laid back "meh, she's a woman in a soldier, so what?" attitude. Not much attention drawn to it. I'm trying to inject feminist ideals into my story, but not in an in your face kind of way. In a passive, just putting it there and not drawing attention to it way. Just to make it feel natural. Just idly mention that one of my female characters regularly purchases the services of male prostitutes at the local brothel and have no one think it's a big deal. I've gotten a grand total of zero complaints, save for one person who says that he thinks the gender ratio is slightly skewered towards females, and that he prefers an even 50/50 split. Heck, I've even gotten a couple of female fans who say that they really like the way I write my female characters. It's idealized, but it's not bad. Frankly I think gay people absolutely love the idea of playing a game where they can go "That person is gay, so what?" A game where two gay men approach their relationship the exact way two heterosexual people would. Maybe it's just me, but if I was gay, I wouldn't play a game to remind myself of how much crap I had to put up with, I would play it to get away from it. Are there places for games that explore the stigma of being gay? Yes there are. But there are also places for the "I'm gay, big deal, who wants pizza" attitudes in game.
Wrong is too strong a word I think, maybe unrealistic is a better one. Even in places where homosexuality is accepted there is still always that risk gay people like myself have to worry about a lot. Obviously if you want to have a no-strings attached depiction of homosexuality in a game, the makers can do as they please and I'm pretty confident that many gay people really want that. For me though it's just a bit odd that I can metaphorically hold hands with a man in a faux-dark ages setting where you have all the traits of a dark-ages society, all except for attitudes towards gender and sex. If Bioware wants to make a medieval setting that has no qualms about that, it's completely fine. However if they want to make gay characters to make games more inclusive and relatable to gay people, there should be some of that anxiety in how the relationships pan out.
 

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I find it odd how many people are complaining that stuffing gay routes in the game would interfere with straight players. How? How would it?

I think Fallout handles the "straight gay" relatively well. Gannon and Veronica told you that they were bisexual and a lesbian at some point in their arcs; it just kind of happens, and there are a few extra little options and tidbits that fleshed that out that occasionally brought it up, but it was never all that important.

You know Dragon Age: Origins? In Denerim's smithy, there were the two living embodiments of sass and camp? Turns out, that they're the only functional couple in the game. The fact that Bioware had to come out with it was completely unnecesary; it wouldn't have been more obvious. It seems Bioware uses gay characters as:

A) Comic Relief (like in the case of Zevran, who aside from dying a lot, using all of my poultices and SASSing, he was there to make orgy jokes and look pretty)
B) Bizarre, Silly Political Statements That Dumb The Game Down
C) To Appease The Yaoi/Yuri Fangirls/boys

The three big "nos" when it comes to writing gay characters.
Even so, I think they really are trying here, and I am fairly excited for the new Dragon Age that's coming out. Bioware has learnt their lesson; do not force gay routes any more than straight routes (I hated Anders. I thought he was annoying, and the writers really, really wanted you to pick him. No. I picked Fenris. Still gay, but I did it out of spite at the writers' attempts to be "progressive") and how sexuality isn't some trivial thing that determines whose genitals you're comfortable touching. It's a huge part of someone's identity, and how they view themselves and how they are viewed.

All that said, I do support Bioware, because they've made some of the best games ever, and I think they have enough experience and feed back to write something not complete horse shite.
 

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NemotheElvenPanda said:
erttheking said:
You know, I don't get the hamfisted sexuality argument. I mean, I haven't seen that much of Dragon Age 2, but from what I've seen in it the characters don't go "Oh by the way did I mention that I'm gay? Because I'm gay," every three seconds. If a person's sexuality completely defined who they were, you literally should not be able to name anything else about them and they would bring it up every three seconds. And that would be an appallingly bad character. Again I haven't seen much, but I haven't seen anything like that from DA2, or really any Bioware games. Heck, Traynor in ME3 only off handily mentions that she's a lesbian if you go out of your way to woo her (And in the Citadel DLC). I just don't follow your argument.

Would be cool to see a non-romancible gay character though.
It's just incredibly jarring to see gay characters just saying they're openly gay as if there isn't some social stigma or anxiety about it. Even in areas were homosexuality is 100% accepted there's still heavy sense of caution and anxiety simply because it's not a common behavior and all the other social baggage that goes with it. This is why I consider Sky's relationship one of the best Bioware ever made because you really had to go out of your way as a male PC to get into a relationship with him. If you didn't do things right in dialogue by making him feel ok with the idea on being in love with another man, the romance would end. That's incredibly realistic for a lot of gay people.
So the clockwork flying machines, magic and underwater city of ghosts were fine in Jade Empire. But gays being openly gay would have been a bridge too far? You're literally asking gay players to put up with being oppressed while playing a game that's all about an empowerment fantasy. Simply because you can't accept that that particular aspect of a fantasy world is fantastic.

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Why? Is it completely pointless to have a character who is black without it adding value to the story? Seriously replace "gay" with any other minority in the sentence you just said. As if it's pointless to have representation of non-straight white characters in a story without them justifying their existence in the plot somehow. How about having them in there because people other than straight whites exist. Or because only having straight whites is not only boring but also unlikely in sci-fi settings and unecessary in fantasy settings.
It probably is pointless, but no more pointless than having a majority group. But then, if it's so pointless, one is left to wonder why people fight it so thoroughly. I would think if it was pointless, an argument over it would be similarly pointless.

And to remedy any potential misunderstanding, I'm more or less on your side. I'm just sort of spinning off this concept.
Well, all art is pointless on some level. Just like everything else humans do. But being more inclusive/diverse to add much needed variety to your characters and/or appeal to a wider audience (like game makers are constantly saying they want to do) actually does serve those purposes. Even if the character as a minority doesn't serve any special purpose they couldn't have served as a straight white person.

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I know you're being sarcastic, but the gender binary is total bullshit in general. All of the "scientific evidence" for a strict gender binary is based on ignoring or claiming as flawed the thousands of people who don't fall neatly into the x and y chromosome divisions they teach in school. The thousands of men with breasts and women with facial hair, supposedly "male" and "female" secondary sexual characteristics. And that's not even getting into those who would normally be designated transgender persons.
You do realize that those few intersex people are exceptions to the rule not ones that disprove, right? They're outliers, they literally compose a fraction of a fraction of the world's population (this is thousands of people from a few billion after all). Being intersex is a mutation, an abnormality that doesn't even manifest all that uniformly. That's not necessarily a bad thing but it doesn't make it any less true. You can't same the same about sexuality because sexuality isn't always purely a genetic thing, a lot of it has to do with emotional preferences and a more romantic aspect.
The fact that intersex people, whether intersex as described above, transgender or both exist- no matter how relatively small their number- proves that the rigid divide of "male" and "female" is artificial to an extent. The fact that much of not most of what we associate with being "male" or "female" is based on culture rather than anatomy helps this conclusion. Of course no one would argue that the L, G and B are far more common, but that doesn't mean T deserves any less respect.
Who says they don't deserve respect? Saying the gender binary is a thing doesn't invalidate any intersex/transgender people, it's why we have the classification of intersex/transgender after all. Intersex is simply a mutation that contains features of both genders, they aren't an entirely third gender since the features aren't uniform across intersex individuals (their are numerous specific classifications for certain intersex conditions which are all distinct from each other) and most intersex individuals are infertile by the very nature of their mutation. As for transgenderism, how does it nullify the gender binary? As for transgenders, don't they enforce the gender binary since they feel they're a certain gender?

Also, just because society enforces certain behaviors and interests with certain genders, that doesn't mean that gender isn't entirely a biological thing. I never understood the separation of gender from sex other than people wanting to separate the false preconception that certain genders can't do certain things since that is entirely a societal problem and doesn't really have any bearing on your anatomy. For instance, a tomboy would still be completely female while an effeminate man would still be completely male. There could be an argument that some behaviors could be more inclined to certain genders due to small inherent differences in the brain, but that would be a different case from saying all members of that gender must exhibit that behavior else they aren't apart of it.
Yes, I was thinking of genderfluid individuals as well but I was very tired when writing. The issue of gender is a very complex one because people tend to be very defensive of things they learn when very young. When you challenge these concepts, even if it's only by existing as a transgendered person they can and often do get violent. The incredibly high rate of murder and violence against transwomen is particularly horrifying. And helped by a culture where many see them as "traps" for straight men. While some some particularly deranged and paranoid "feminists" claim they're sleeper cells for "the patriarchy". As I understand it was in a book by one such "feminist" the derogatory term "she-male" came about.
 

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Maybe because the majority of writers and developers in the game industry aren't gay and can't imagine writing such characters?
 

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I am inclined to agree, it is a ROLE playing game after all. Maybe I want to play the role of gay.
 

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How about making a game that can muster more than apathy from me first eh?

Anyway first we need to become tough enough to *oh gosh* include sex/nudity and stop it being taboo. Secondly where are the menage trois? If you're going to take some stand that there must be more of what goes against (usually) Christian Values than go the full hog.
...An RPG where all your party members are wives/husbands and they aren't pointless NPCs...umm.

Point is obliterate the weaker walls first if you want to take that particular wall down.