Moral discussion: would you?

[AMMO Kid]

The weird thing that comes to my head when I read that is the question of whether or not this is happening to you and if you should take up your step sibling on it. Like this is all a ruse to get advise on what to do...

But no, I wouldn't do that. Why would I want to mess with my future like that? What would happen when I meet the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with? "Well, uhhhhh... I had sex with my step sister once just because I felt like it... But now I really really love you and I'm committing all of me to you!" Yea, like she'd buy that...

 

[Moromillas]

Big fat maybe. It would have to be something more than physical, there would have to be an actual interest, not just for a good time. Having sex straight off the bat, yeah, I don't think it's good for anyone. Going to the movies, sure I can't really see anything wrong with that.

 

[zelda2fanboy]

I'd generally be for a situation that would involve me having consensual sex with an attractive female. (Yeah, you can't legally consent if you're underage, yada, yada, yada). I'd at least (and I mean at least) want a condom and probably one more form of contraception. Not only would you get teenage sex, but also a really fucked up story to tell people the rest of your life. ("Oh, c'mon. She wasn't really my sister!")

 

[Dirzzit]

As long as they aren't my blood I couldn't care less.

 

[escapistraptor]

The way you very specifically picked the age 17 makes me think you're probably telling us your real life situation. Go for it bro.

Not really. Please don't

 

[uzo]

Hmm .. for all you guys saying "hell no - not even if we aren't blood relatives !! Ewww!", let me pose a tricky and no-less hypothetical question:

Say you were the child of a gay couple (deal with it people, we're gonna start seeing more and more of these now!). That couple breaks up (I'm not here to debate gay marriage, but sure, let's say they got divorced). Your gay mother/father now starts dating another gay man/woman, end up getting married, and hey presto you end up with a step-sibling at the age of 17ish, and hey presto OP's situation develops again.

Is it ok this time?

What if both you and the other sibling were actually *adopted* children of these gay couples? (and don't say some bs about 'we might be *actual* siblings!')

EDIT: And hot damn .. I could never say no to Marcia Brady !! MeoW!

 

[l3o2828]

Hmm .. for all you guys saying "hell no - not even if we aren't blood relatives !! Ewww!", let me pose a tricky and no-less hypothetical question:

Say you were the child of a gay couple (deal with it people, we're gonna start seeing more and more of these now!). That couple breaks up (I'm not here to debate gay marriage, but sure, let's say they got divorced). Your gay mother/father now starts dating another gay man/woman, end up getting married, and hey presto you end up with a step-sibling at the age of 17ish, and hey presto OP's situation develops again.

Is it ok this time?

What if both you and the other sibling were actually *adopted* children of these gay couples? (and don't say some bs about 'we might be *actual* siblings!')

I guess that's a little better since there is absolutely no blood relation, but then again, i always find it hard to look sexually at people who are meant to form part of your family.

 

[thefrizzlefry]

I see nothing wrong with it; we're not blood related, so there's not really anything wrong. Hell, it'll probably be easier than most relationships, considering you already live in the same house.

 

[Razeluxe]

not actually related = fine by me.

 

[viking97]

No I would not. This would be a huge can of awkward to open, both if it becomes something and if it ends. I can not see one single way for this to have a non-creepy fallout.

*looks at avatar* hehe...fallout...


OT ya, probably. it probably wouldn't end well but my brain wouldn't be working properly when she asked.

 

[PancakesSUCKTHEYDO]

You WILL regret it later on.

At least I know I will

 

[nebtheslayer95]

sure. im good at keeping secrets

 

[Dissolve]

I'm going to say yes to this one, but only if you don't have a strong connection to your family (i.e. you're okay with being disowned).

 

[Commissar Sae]

Weirdly enough I could actually be in this situation. Both of my step sisters are fairly hot and share zero blood ties with me. That said Im not the kind of person who can just mess around physically. I would turn them down, with some regret sure, but I would feel too awkward to persue it. That and my girlfriend would probably kill me.

 

[game-lover]

I don't think so. In the end, the shame and such would be too much of a hindrance.

Can't do anything if you're not comfortable and all.

Because yeah, I'd see them as a sibling. It'd be a bother. Plus a similar situation happened with some extended family and the step sibs became a couple. No one else seemed to mind but she took the liberty to say she would have killed them if they were her children.

Just... too many reasons not to and not incentive to do so.

 

[darkfire613]

I'd probably go along with it. They aren't related by blood, so there's really no difference. What if you and your new sibling had been going out before the parents met, and then a few months later your and their parents decided to marry? It ends in the same situation, but in a different order. So I see no problem with it, in either way.

 

[zehydra]

I have no problem with actual incest (so long as no procreation involved) so yes, I'd hit that. No one is harmed, no one is inconvenienced, no-one has the right to call it wrong.

in this scenario procreation wouldn't matter since the two aren't related.

 

[Jezzascmezza]

I'd say no, because it would make things very awkward for a very long time.
Also, you run the risk of your parents finding out...

 

[Tselis]

If they are going straight to the physical part, then I have to wonder how often they have, and how many STD's I might be facing.

 

[Hatter]

I always wondered what i would be like if I were to get married only to have one of my parents marry one of my wife's parents. Honestly I would be kind of annoyed...

OT: I'd say go for it, it's not incest, and I don't find anything morally wrong with it, especially since you're older (In my situation I pretty much grew up with my step siblings, and although they are both male, I would imagine that it would be extremely weird had one of them been female and something like your situation happened).