If you don't want to go, don't.
I didn't, I'm not so big on these popular outings either. However, I do like dressing sharply if I have the opportunity. Funny thing, me and a few friends didn't go to prom, we went to a drive-in movie. While we were there, there's a playground on the site, we took a picture of me in a little kids swing and sent it to our friends who *did* go to prom. Turns out that picture kind of made it's way around prom, people came back to us talking about how funny it was. We were the life of our high school prom and we didn't even go.
I'd tell you not to get pressured but hey, we're all different, some people just get pressured, they can't help it. I'm not saying you're one of them, I'm just saying that *if* you are, don't feel bad, who knows, you might enjoy it more than you thought.
Luckily, I'm not one to get pressured into doing things, high school dances were one of them. And believe me, my friends
really wanted me to go. I remember one of my favorite back-and-forth's over it with one of my friends went something like this:
Me: "Guys, I just don't want to go. It's not like a have a date anyway."
Friend: "You might find one there. Me and [other friend] walked into [some high school dance with a name I can't remember] single and walked out with dates."
Me: "Really? My dad didn't go to prom and he had a wife and two kids."
Anyway.
DalekJaas said:
You'll regret not going, it is better to go and have a an average night then to think about what could have been. Then you'll sit there and convince yourself that not going was the best thing for you even though you let your fear get the best of you.
This is not a good website to ask this on, all most people will do here is re-affirm your negative thoughts because they would most likely not go either.
Opportunities always look better when you have missed them, so make the most of it.
That's a really good point.
Personally, I have never once looked back on an event that skipped and thought about what it might have been. I'm not trying to sound cool, I'm just not that kind of guy.
But, Ackichi, if you're a person who regrets missed opportunities, definitely take this advice. If you have a should have-could have-would have attitude, I imagine it will drive you mad if you miss it.