ElPatron said:
Treblaine said:
You using "that's gay" to describe things that are merely pathetic rather than of a same-sex screwing thing... that is homophobic.
Why has the black culture transformed the n-word into something that does not carry the old pejorative meaning but we can't take the homophobic out of "gay"?
I don't get mankind at all.
Don't get me started on the N-word. It's use is EXTREMELY complex and depends hugely on who uses it in what way. Black people have not transformed the word, it's meaning has always been the same, it still brings up the same associations of slavery, colonial abuses and lynching justice.
Anyway, I can't find the exact quote from Stephen K. Amos, but he said of the N-word that the difference between a black or white person saying it is you know if a black person saying it that is not a queue for violence and separations.
When a black person says it or even addresses him by it, that emphasises their similarity, a kind of racial brotherhood, an intensely strong if intangible one born though suffering and denigration. It brings up the memories of slavery and colonialism when all they had in the universe was each other.
But when a white person calls him a ******, that just emphasises how different they are in the crudest way, how that difference was exploited in slavery and lynch justice. It doesn't just separate him from the white guy but is perceived as a racist rallying cry to other racist to move in against him, this is VERY clear to any black person, the history is unavoidable and the precedent continues as racist continue to use the label "******" as a rallying cry for racist conspiracies, and uncouth black people continue to use the term ****** the reinforce brotherhood of historical (and continuing) adversity as distinct from other racial groups.