... well... having gone through this entire thread, having read some well thought out arguments, and some rather hilarious attempts at trolling, I figured I'd might as well throw myself into the fray.
Obviously, rape is bad. I don't want it to happen to me, or any of my friends (male or female). The idea of people actually playing this game to get their kicks frankly makes me a little ill.
However, I agree with the argument that there's no real point in trying to censor these games. While I don't like the idea of people actually enjoying the games, I can understand someone playing it just because they're curious (you never know if you never try). They've also been around for a while - it's only been the last week or so that everyone's gone into a knot over it. I don't know the details, since my Japanese isn't good enough to pick up what the news story was saying, but there was a rather cross looking Englishwoman.
One point that's been made a few times is the actual subject of 'sex' in society. In western society, while sexuality is thrown about like it's on fire, it's usually only eluded to. When actual sexs acts are portrayed, I tend to find it a bit off-putting (like that sex scene in Watchmen). But not all societies are the same. Japanese society - while rather closed up and unwilling to speak out - don't find sex that much of a big deal. In my nearest 7/11, the porno magazines (usually manga-style, too) are right next to the ATM, and most of them aren't covered up (like they would be in Australia, and America I assume). You can buy hentai manga at any book store (though it usually has a curtain sectioning it off from the rest, with a 18+ sign on it). Sex - hetero/homo, sweet, kinky, violent, even of the dubious-consent/non-consent kind - is a easy-to-access comodity here, and yet I don't fear for my virtue everytime I walk down the street.
I don't really want to touch the murder vs rape issue, but I've played some games where the method of killing is rather realistic. Sneaking up on them, using cheese-wire (the proper name escapes me right now) around their throat, bludgeoning them with the nearest object, find a high sheltered spot and use a silencer, etc. Doesn't mean I've ever felt the urge to stalk someone down a dark hallway, let alone use a gun and scream "BOOM, HEADSHOT!". (Also, someone said something about necrophilia... imagine if there was an option in a zombie game to actually do that. what would the reaction be? What if it was the corpse of a man, or a child? If it was actually still 'alive'?)
... I've realised I've made these points, but I have no real summary. Huh. I blame the fact that it's around 2AM over here.
But yes. So - I find no real reason why the games should actually be censored. Hell, if they actually were, I'd probably be more interested in having a look myself, JUST because I've been denied the chance to have them. It's a reaction I'm sure a lot of people would have.
and now, I go crash (="=