Glongpre said:
90sgamer said:
Did you contribute? Yes. Those girls were your responsibility.
Those women are not his responsibility. They are adults not kids.
His brother was an adult, not a kid, he's not OP's responsibility.
knight steel said:
Scenario:My brother and two lady friends went to a bar I'm the driver so no alcohol for me,all three of them get wasted my brother more so than the girls he get's so bad that he runs off to the toilet to throw up to the point where it would not be possible to get him into my car so I decide to wait a bit intill he's safe to travel.
The two girls decide that they want to leave immediately and refuse to wait for my Brother who I can't leave behind,so they say they are going to walk and find a taxi,I warned them not too go and instead to please be patient and wait 15 minutes more because it exceptionally late, they are both drunk,both wearing revealing clothing and we are not in the best neighborhood all of which could make them targets to an attack.
It at this point that I get yelled at for victim blaming/shaming and that I'm degrading them,encouraging rape culture ect ect at this point some other people join in on the yelling at me so I give up and tell them to leave and they do while I go back to the toilet to check on my brother to see if he's better yet.
Well as it turns out they were attacked as I was to find out today luckily they were able to escape with some minor bruising and nothing else, but here's the catch-they blame me completely for what happened to them due to the fact that I let them leave alone and are now trying to turn my other friends against me.
So I ask you Escapist Am I to Blame?
Count me in for the "You're making this up" group.
You lost me when the supposedly drunk girls (as well as random strangers in a bar) started yelling at you about Rape Culture, and degrading them, etc etc. A- Drunk people are never that coherent. B- Rando's in a bar wouldn't jump in and start accusing you of being a patriarchist.
Also, your profile says that you're from Australia and what I assume is just a spelling mistake, and that you're in Sydney, and not Sydeny. If it's anything like every other big city I've been too, and some smaller cities too, then there would have been an almost roving fleet of Taxis circling the bars. It wouldn't have been hard for them to walk outside and hail one down, or for you to call one and have it come pick them up, or walk them outside to grab one while your brother is puking in the bathroom.
I'm assuming he was constantly puking every minute or so, because otherwise there was really no reason he couldn't have gotten in the car and traveled. The walk to the car would have helped him recover faster, and if the car happened to be very close then the two girls just could have waited inside the car.
So yeah, to sum it up, this scenario is too perfect. It's just like that politically correct firing thread we had a few weeks ago. Everything just fits together so perfectly for the OP and we're all supposed to sit here and call the girls idiots or something. So I voted yes you're completely to blame, because you made up this silly scenario