Smagmuck08 said:My first kiss was a couple of years ago, I was 13 she was 13 as well, it was her birthday and she invited my friends and I over for a pool party, now I'm a little ashaimed of myself for this but, her parents had left(god knows why they left ten teenagers at thier house)to go to dinner, well her being the party girl(which was an extreme turn on) grabed her fathers booze and brought it outside,now about a half hour later, I had had a shot and her about five. Everyone was in the pool, bathing suit or not, I jumped in with my shorts on, and she was already in. Well me being a lightweight, and her already buzzed, I made a move, we started to kiss and everyone was chearing that I, the most unwanted person at our jr. high was finally getting some. Needless to say, I got a little cocky, I picked her up to where are waists were meeting and she wrapped her legs around my torso, and we kept going, this is about the time we started getting serious, but it wasn't to last, just as I started to make another move, guess who showed up... No it wasn't her parents, it was the police. I have never ran faster in my life. I made it home but not with out problems, five got arrested, including her.
The next school day, I ran into her between classes, we both blushed, and she handed me a note, it read: "Thanks for the good time, it was worth it." we didn't even get to second and I didn't even care. God I was wild back then but I sobered up and now I'm booze free.
I'm probly gonna get probation for this.
Nice story, don't worry. You learn to pick up those cues rather quickly. I personally prefer subtlety to my first kisses so tongue is usually a no-no.SODAssault said:Allow me to give you a quick set-up. I've known this girl for about, say, eight months, been her best friend for nearly that same time. We'd been flirting quite heavily, but never making any real "moves" other than very long hugs and her cuddling up next to me when we're watching a movie. I'm not the kind of guy to "ask out" a woman, I'd much prefer for things to be much more spontaneous and to let them just happen.
So, one night, I invite her over to watch any movie she wants (her choice: Better Off Dead), and order pizza for both of us. Nobody else is home, and we enjoyed the night quite thoroughly. Now, I've never been good with subtle cues. She'd been licking her lips all night, and here, my stupid ass thought she simply had dry lips. So I didn't kiss her that night. I drop her off at home, she lingers, waiting to see if I'll make a move, and then I tell her goodnight and drive off. Now, I had a feeling that she wanted me to kiss her, but I didn't want to take any chances: I really, really liked her, and I didn't want to do ANYTHING to fuck things up.
Then, a day later, she's pretty pissed off at me for a reason that I was completely blind to at the time. She won't return any of my texts, messages or calls, and I'm left wondering where the fuck I went wrong. She finally caves and starts talking to me, and eventually admits that I made her feel like an idiot for not trying to kiss her. That threw me for a loop, I tell you what.
So, we smooth things out again, and I invite her over to watch another movie, this time in the middle of the day. War of the Worlds, this time. We watch for about half an hour, I work up the courage to move in, and then...
...for my first kiss? I went for serious tongue. And then it turns out that there is such a thing as "way too fucking much tongue", as she bashfully pointed out to me later that same day.
But you know what? There were fucking fireworks going off in my mind. Not the stupid chemicals that're released whenever intimate contact with a member of the opposite sex is made, god no, but the kind of uplifting feeling that just tells me "you're going to love this girl until the day you die". Sounds pathetic, right? Like some loser who finally got a base run experiencing his moment of glory and trying to rationalize it as a sign of true love? Well, I beg to differ: several months later, I'm still with her, and I have never been happier. Our relationship is extremely strong, and we are thoroughly committed to one another. I plan on spending the rest of my days by her side... and I love her.
Kid, you think you're overdue? I'm going to be 18 in a few months and I yet to hold hands with a guy. So you shouldn't worry so much. I on the other hand, am a pitiful excuse for a young woman in New York. '-_-Aerodynamic said:haven't had mine yet, though, it seems overdue, im13
That's the spirit!Kuchinawa212 said:I have yet to kiss a girl. I have yet to hold hand with a girl, I have yet to talk to a girl around my age in real life for more then 30 minutes stright. I hear the avg. age for a first kiss is 11 or 13 I forget
I'm 16 and honestly, I don't give a crap.
heh, maybe one day. I never ruled that out. I just said I'm not kicking myself about making a move on a classmate or something like that.Kevlar Eater said:That's the spirit!Kuchinawa212 said:I have yet to kiss a girl. I have yet to hold hand with a girl, I have yet to talk to a girl around my age in real life for more then 30 minutes stright. I hear the avg. age for a first kiss is 11 or 13 I forget
I'm 16 and honestly, I don't give a crap.
Never kissed a girl before, not even a family member's cheek. With a misanthropic personality such as mine, I don't think it's gonna happen anytime this life.
I'm 20. Don't laugh.