Poll: InterRacial Dating

[Candidus]

I'm a white man, mid twenties. I find white women with pale skin, red hair and short heart-shaped faces the most attractive, followed by white with other features. Rarely, I'm attracted to black women with small facial features, but beyond that I'm never (read: NEVER) attracted to anything I haven't mentioned so far.

I can provide absolutely no reason- I've got no hangups, no problem with people from other races as friends, co-workers and so on. I am just not attracted whatsoever to hispanic, asian or east-asian women.

Actually scratch that. I don't like small, skinny women. This is a common physical build for east-asian women, and it's naturally a massive turn off. There's one of them explained.

 

[notsosavagemessiah]

Ok, so I'm a black/asian girl (i look more black though), and the first thing id like to point out is that the only guys who think im pretty are black guys. I rarely see any races dating outside of their own race. first of all i think its not fair because i dont think ill find a black/asian guy (and i dont want to), and second of all, why? how many escapists out there like to date men/women from other races?

EDIT: sorry if i missed a race there arent alot of spaces to put answers for the poll =_=

i've dated all kinds of women. Had plenty of fun with even more. I find though that each person has their own preference, in my case, i like asian girls of any type. My fiance is half mexican and half philipino, she knows how to play up either side when necessary. Perhaps that's something you could try. But as to why people tend not to date outside their own race, i guess i have to ask where you're from. Because i find that in the U.S. it's quite common to see interracial dating, except, of course, where black women are involved. It's just not something you see very often. I don't know why, but i always assumed it's because black girls don't like white boys lol.

 

[Steven True]

"first of all i think its not fair"

I agree. It isn't fair.
But, who ever said that dating was supposed to be fair?

"Fair" has to do with ethics. Dating has to do (initially) with sexual attraction.

 

[Illesdan]

OO a black/asian person!! Never seen one. Mind posting pics?

Anyways I myself preffer east asian women but am currently dating a black girl.

Yes, yes you have. His name is Tiger Woods.

 

[Lieju]

Well, as I live in area where most people are white, most of the people I've found attractive had been white.

But I don't really have preference for it.

When it comes to black people, I find either very light brown, or very dark black skin-colour attractive, but I don't really care. Personality is much more important.

However, when it comes to dating someone from a different culture or ethnic background, even if the skin-colour is the same, it can be difficult, so I guess I'd prefer someone from a similar background.

 

[Snake Plissken]

I find this sort of relevant and totally hilarious.


I generally just date whoever is available. In Colorado, that usually comes down to white or Hispanic girls. And as a white dude, I'm not stranger to Hispanic girls. Hasn't ever worked out well with them, though.

 

[BrownGaijin]

Apparently my ancestors liked interracial dating so much that they just simply started calling us Mexicans.

Spoiler: Apparently the Argentinians had the same issue

OT: Oh yeah and while my highest preference attitude above all, I do fancy a femme from Japan.

 

[Jewrean]

Snip

Before I had experience with girls I was angry at interracial dating. It was an envious thing. Whether you like it or not there is ALWAYS a higher chance of a black guy going out with a white girl then the other way around. In my own funny little way it was like seeing all the white girls being taken by black guys. This is why white guys go out with Asian girls so often I guess. I suppose the Black girls and Asian guys are getting screwed on this deal huh?

ANYWAY I digress. I went out with an Asian girl for a little while. I would be willing to go out with any race really. I don't care anymore. At the moment I'm going out with a white girl.

I've come to the conclusion women don't like white guys that have jobs, aren't 'bad boys', have money, and are intelligent to talk to. Or at least in my area. Fucking Bogans.

 

[Another]

When it comes to attractiveness hot women are hot women.

When it comes to serious relationships for me, doesn't matter if their hot as long as I enjoy their company.

 

[blankedboy]

Well, most people around here are either Pakeha (think 'white') or Maori (think 'black')... Maoris tend to have a massively different build to Pakehas and I don't find them very attractive. But I'm planning to move to Europe at some point (uberdeveloped societies ftw), so then obviously there's a much bigger range of people I'd find attractive.

 

[Doctor Panda]

Happens all the freaking time where I'm from. The most common is of course the old white guy/asian girl. But I've seen just about every combination under the sun and rarely meet anyone of my generation that has a problem with it. Occasionally the odd conservative immigrant group keeps to itself but that's about it really.

 

[lior13]

im brown(middle eastern[israel]) and perfer white women rhater then brown women i dont know why but i just do

 

[Motti]

So far I've only dated caucasian girls, but I think this partly comes down to two reasons:
a) I have a thing for brunettes but don't really like dye jobs and
b) the part of Australia I live in is still mostly an anglo-celt bubble (thankfully I think this is starting to change and we're getting more culturally diverse as time goes by).

However, I think people have the right to date whoever they want to, and while in my experience the majority of people are attracted to members of their own race, we're all humans. Who cares what part of the world they trace their heritage back to or what colour their skin is? At the risk of sounding more cliche'd than a saturday morning cartoon, love's all that matters.

 

[Napierdalac]

Im about as scandinavian as you can be (tall, fair skinned, bulky - give me an axe and a horned helmet and i would be a viking)

I have been with most races, except blacks. No rascism, they just dont turn me on.

Something special about asian girls...

 

[Aurgelmir]

Um, what the hell is European in comparison to White?

*looks at his skin*
*looks at his passport*
*becomes very confused*

 

[Wintermoot]

aslong as she isnt fugly or has the personality of a lipstick I,m cool with her (race doesnt realy matter to me)

 

[Palademon]

Maybe people feel more comfortable in their own race.
For me it's just I don't find black people very attractive. But on the most part, you should be asking me what race I wouldn't date. But my dating depends on me actually liking the person. If I like the person who cares what race they are?

 

[Chibz]

Elves dating humans? Blasphemy!

Oh wait, you mean humans... Um... Little raci....

*Tip-toes out*

 

[Priddo]

I'm white, and don't have a preference really, just whoever I like is whoever I like. Currently dating an Asian girl, and it's great.

 

[k-ossuburb]

I honestly don't see skin colour any more, of course I'm naturally predisposed to find people of my own race (Caucasian) attractive, it's an instinct. That being said, I prefer to look a little deeper than initial physical attractiveness since what I'm really attracted to is someone who can hold a decent conversation, shares at least one interest with me, has a decent taste in music/games/movies/art/comics/books/fashion/everything else and aren't too clingy.