Everyone grieves in different ways, let them grieve, cry and come to terms with loss themselves. People feel better once they've made the decision to move on themselves.
You don't have to be sad if someone you didn't know very well dies. A great aunt of mine died recently, but I'd only met her a couple of times in my entire life and honestly it doesn't really affect me. However, if I were to sit around looking bored at the funeral, that would be rather upsetting to all the people who did know and love her. It's about respect to those who are suffering for the loss, and I'm honestly perplexed that you weren't able to figure that out for yourself.Kirex said:Why do we almost mandate that people must be sad when someone dies? And yes, it's also a cultural thing to a point. If I am not crying at a funeral(which doesn't mean I didn't love them) then everybody calls me out for that and calls me heartless and the like. Why do we continue this trend in culture?
yeah, it's kind of like telling someone not to be nervousDaystar Clarion said:Crying is a reactionary response to sadness.
We can't help how we feel.
Well, considering crying is a standard response to being sad, then yeah, it's perfectly fine.Kirex said:Snip
I find it interesting youre planning to die after your kids.Thomas Guy said:*Rolls eyes so hard they fall out*
Yes when my kids die I will calmly plan out their funerals and then go to a comedy film and laugh my ass off. No reason to be upset at all.