Akai Shizuku said:
First thing the Palestinians need to realise is that violence will do nothing but propetuate the cycle of violence. Israel, despite all their detractors say about them, would never try and commit genocide and the international community would never allow it, and likewise the combined might of the Arab armies is not enough to defeat Israel, and again the international community would step in and put a stop to it.
All terrorist attacks do is push the Israeli's to crack down on the Palestinians. All that does is increase resentment and suffering and allows terrorist masterminds to take the desperate and the angry and turn them into living weapons. As long as both sides continue this that conflict can't end. The Israeli's are scared of the Palestinians and the Palestinians are scared of the Israeli's. They chose to deal with it through violence.
Of course, not all follow this example; Fatah (not sure about the spelling, but they're Hamas' rivals) can get along peacefully with Israel, and there are plenty of Israeli's who help the Palestinians. This is proof enough that both sides
can get along.
What the Palestinians need to do is abandon violent tactics altogether. All they do is kill innocents in Israel and reduce international support for Palestine; if you follow this conflict all the way back to the start it was the Arab nations that started the conflict (how much of this was the fault of the Palestinians and how much of it was just the fault of the Hitler-supporting leader will never be known), so Israel has been striking back.
Look at Ghandi's approach; by being non-violent he was able to make the British soliders who attack the protestors look horrible and turn the British public opinion against them. Likewise if the Palestinians don't strike back at all when Israeli forces strike them, then public opinion in both Israel and the international community will turn against the Israeli government.
The best thing the Israeli government can do to start the peace process up is to tear down the wall. I can understand the thought behind it; Palestinian terrorists kill their civillians, so it's best if they can't get into Israel. But all it does is aid in the dehumanisation that all words carry out. Before they might not have gotten along, but Israeli's and Palestinians could at the very least see each other's faces and could think of each others as human beings. Now they don't have that human connection, which makes acts of violence easier to carry out.
Once that is done the Israeli government needs to stop building settlements and start pulling out of what is currently Palestinian terroritory. Sharon started this process and look at how Israeli's reacted to him. But at the very least it was nesecarry to get the peace process moving again. After that; the Israeli PM has to make sure he's well protected from his own citizens; The two most promiment figures in my mind who tried to make peace were an Egyptian President and an Israeli Prime Minister. Both were killed by their own countrymen.
After that it would be important for both sides to focus on what makes them similar instead of what makes them different, find common ground and build on that. If the non-violence lasts for this long the Israeli's can start to pull back and give the Palestinians more room.
That's a start, and it would take years for all of that to happen, so I'll leave the borring, country building process to the politicions.