GraveeKing said:
Never heard the word wigger before - so no idea if it's an offensive word or something. But bloody hell this is a brilliant idea! It's expressing their acceptance. If everyone acted really flamboyant and gay for a day - I doubt we'd be so offended. We'd all have a good laugh and people would be happy but noooooo the second you mention a color it's the worse thing in the worse.
O.K It wasn't a good idea perhaps but really now - GET OVER IT! xD
I would be extremely offended. For the same reason as the black woman is in this case. Why? Because only a very few gay people encompass the 'really flamboyant' stereotype. You know what though? If we declared that day, everyone would show up dressed as Liberace, and everyone would think it was "sooo hilarious".
First of all, thinking that dressing up and acting like a stereotype is 'hilarious' is buying into prejudice in itself.
Second, having everyone dress as a stereotype as a sanctioned event reinforces the stereotype (which was damn wrong in the first place) as true in the minds of all involved. Majority rule don't you know.
Third, if you were really 'expressing acceptance' you would realize that while all the straight people are having a good time and laughing, the gays (who you were trying to express acceptance of?) are feeling made fun of and hurt.
Edit: The best way i can put it is this - it is impossible to have 'dress-like-a-black-day' or 'dress-like-a-gay-day' because it's impossible to 'dress like a black' or 'dress like a gay' unless you are pulling from a stereotype. If you are, you are inherently wrong.