Custard_Angel said:
How many people still play Mass Effect 2? Who still talks about it? Who still cares about it?
The answer to all 3 of those questions is "a fraction of the people who were hyped about the game after launch".
You clearly haven't been to the Bioware websites. The game may not be discussed nearly as often on public forums, but damn near everyone I ask (who played Mass Effect 2) still plays it and loves it. And EVERYONE who's played it is going borderline insane waiting for Mass Effect 3.
That said, and unsurprisingly, my vote goes to Mass Effect 2 this year. The gameplay was improved, the focus on the characters rather than the Reapers was a brilliant move, and the presentation is almost second-to-none.