Gurk said:
Imagination is far more exciting than porn.
I don't have a problem with it in the slightest and I would have no problem if I had a partner that watched it. To me, porn became boring & just plain vulgar very quickly. Each to their own.
Guffe said:
I don't watch porn. I don't mean I haven't even watched porn, when younger (I am still young) I watched some but never much.
If you look at the meaning of pornography it means anything that can make you aroused or makes you feel more sexual tension. This means pornography can be anything from movies, pictures to socks you think look sexy.
I personally think porn in movie form is for people with bad fantasies ^^, no offense to anyone but I prefer my mind doing the job instead of the screen.
Otherwise I have nothing against it, if people want to watch it, please go ahead.
This.
I don't have anything against porn, and used to watch it every once in a while, but...meh. I find it to be rather dull compared to what's in your head. Even when I watched porn more often in high school, it was just to get my imagination going...I'd start off the first few minutes and then switch it off. I DO still feel that it can be degrading (to both men and women) and I don't really see how you can argue otherwise...but, eh, such is life. As long as you accept that what you're watching is basically fantasy, I don't have a problem with it. I feel like the problem is a lot of stupid guys don't...and I guess it's something a lot grow out of, but come on...we all know that guy that compares all women in real life to a porno. That is a sad, sad man. :/ That being said,
porn did not make him that way obviously, but I guess it didn't help.
Also I've found that it's less exciting now that I'm in a long term relationship. Same goes for him. And if I'm thinking logically, I understand that if a guy watches porn while in a relationship, there's nothing wrong with that, and it obviously doesn't mean he's not attracted to you...but I'll admit, emotionally, I'd have a problem if he continued to see porn on a regular (like daily) basis while with me. :/