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captaincabbage

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Meglin said:
I think i might be one of the few females to reply to this topic lol. I dont like porn. Ive seen it before, and i completely understand the want of a visual sexual stimulation. And i guess it does give you that. But when it gets to the point (for guys) when u have been in a long term relationship and u still watch it a lot, it kinda sucks for your girlfriend (trust me i know). In my experience it gives some guys a false sense of what sex is, how much they should have of it and where and when and pretty much everything. I'll be the first to admit that sex isnt something that is in my top 3 things to get done. I dont like to see sex as something that has to be had, and that is a chore. Its something that both people (or more if ur that lucky haha) have to want to do.

If u have been an arse hole to me ur chances of getting some are pretty slim. Some guys still crack it if they dont get some. And then they dont understand why... I think these little concepts seem to escape some guys because of porn. Not just because of porn; i think there are some other concerns too (whole different subject), but porn does not help in the slightest. If u can watch it, enjoy it, and not let it interfere with ur own love life, great. But if u are hurting someone else because of it, not so great.
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding, seriously tho, I reckon you're bang on the money there.
Someone above me in this thread said it well and I'll use it to paraphrase your last point. Porn is good as long as nobody gets hurt, just don't go to porn as you first resort for love making advice.

To be honest, I'm rather desensitized to porn these days. Not because of over-exposure, but because if you have ever watched even one doco' on the industry you know it's completely faked to the 'enth degree. If I ever see porn these days my mind just doesn't get past the fact that they pose and position themselves for the best shot for the camera. It's actually pretty hilarious seeing something and not seeing the buxom woman on the bed, or the muscly guy behind her and just thinking "My god his back must be so sore from that position.", or "I wonder how much she paid for those hilarious implants?".

anyway. . . err, I forgot where I was going.
 

Le_Lisra

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It's alright.

So of course isn't, but its not my place to judge what people like, I can just chose to ignore it (and like hell I will!).

I watch it now and then, I read erotica if I feel in the mood.. tends to spike when I'm not in a relationship (obviously) and as such is great for relieving tension and frustration. Not as good as real sex, but sometimes you just can't have it.
 

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ummm, its pretty good, haha, both porn and the... activities that come with it are a good way to kill time and.... relieve stress..

i dont really see much wrong with it apart from the fact that it gives people an expectation that girls should be as.. attractive as they are in it and guys should always be that well endowed.. but tbh apart from the small self confidence issues it gives some people i see no problems :p
 

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ummm, its pretty good, haha, both porn and the... activities that come with it are a good way to kill time and.... relieve stress..

i dont really see much wrong with it apart from the fact that it gives people an expectation that girls should be as.. attractive as they are in it and guys should always be that well endowed.. but tbh apart from the small self confidence issues it gives some people i see no problems :p
 

captaincabbage

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Does anybody else find it extremely hilarious that this thread has been up for two minutes and it already has upwards on 100 replies?

Porn really is the most interesting thing on the internet! and (apparently) on the Escapist!
 

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captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
 

postblitz

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Pornography is a misunderstood art, as much as erotica films are. As art it provokes your senses and makes you feel in a certain way. Due to how the content subject affects us all it has greater effect than most.

So if they'll ever be a carefully studied and well executed porn film then it may as well be considered a "mona lisa" for making every viewer's sex drives over the roof.

Its healthy and useful under certain circumstances. In excess, as much as anything else, can have bad effects.

Thankfully if you have a girlfriend/wife you don't need it; just better communcation, imagination and understanding. Then again it may be more practical to give a tape and do it later than talking about it.
 

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dex-dex said:
I don't watch porn but my problem with it is that some guys think that it is realistic sex and use it as a guide to how every girl would like to be fucked. loves to be spanked or whatnot.
Hahaha! Yes!
I never known these guys to actually get properly laid.

When I first met my partner, he had a pretty neat collection of porn, never once did he assume I was into spanking and anal or shoouting "OHH YAH BABY OOO HARDER YEAAA BIG BOY!!"

P.S I could act like an awesome porn star in the bedroom, who knows?!
 

captaincabbage

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dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
well hardy hardy har.

Can nobody take a joke anymore? everyone has to be politically correct? It was a light-hearted joke at the stereotypes of women being a minority-cum-myth part of internet and gaming culture and you have to just take it out of context.
you, kind madam, can fuck off.
 

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captaincabbage said:
dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
well hardy hardy har.

Can nobody take a joke anymore? everyone has to be politically correct? It was a light-hearted joke at the stereotypes of women being a minority-cum-myth part of internet and gaming culture and you have to just take it out of context.
you, kind madam, can fuck off.
Oh.
I took it as a joke. To be honest i found it very funny. Sorry if it did not come of that way. i have a pretty dry sense of humour. But you can't go wrong with a good pot roast!
 

black-magic

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I love porn of almost all types, I wouldn't be offended to see any type of it anywhere in the world and in all honesty, I can't understand how people are offended by porn in public (not including, obviously, the porns made of illigal acts)
 

Meglin

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dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
i dont even know how to cook a pot roast lol. to be honest i dont know what a pot roast is... must be an american thing. I can cook a good australian roast though. and a mean curry.

ok im done degrading and stereotyping myself now.

Back to the topic... i would just like to point out that if ur single then u dont have anyone elses feelings to consider. But when ur in a relationship u do. Would it be really that bad if ur partner (guy or girl) asked u to stop watching porn they feel a little degraded or whatever by it, would it be such a big thing to give it up? yes, u may argue that that would be ur partner trying to "change you" but lack of porn is not changing who you are. i would feel that a person quitting smoking would be a bigger deal, yet people do that all the time for their partners.

And yes, I took it as a joke. I can take a joke.
 

captaincabbage

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dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
well hardy hardy har.

Can nobody take a joke anymore? everyone has to be politically correct? It was a light-hearted joke at the stereotypes of women being a minority-cum-myth part of internet and gaming culture and you have to just take it out of context.
you, kind madam, can fuck off.
Oh.
I took it as a joke. To be honest i found it very funny. Sorry if it did not come of that way. i have a pretty dry sense of humour. But you can't go wrong with a good pot roast!
Oooookkkkaaaayyyy. . . I prefer lamb chops myself.

Sry if I overreacted, but it seemed like a ton of super-sarcasm in ur first reply.
 

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Meglin said:
dex-dex said:
captaincabbage said:
A Woman!?? On Escapist!? I Nevar!!

lol I'm just kidding [and snip again!!]
yeah women on the escapist! that would never happen! because women don't play games and they just like making pot roasts if women were ever on this site, the world would EXPLODE!!!
i dont even know how to cook a pot roast lol. to be honest i dont know what a pot roast is... must be an american thing. I can cook a good australian roast though. and a mean curry.

ok im done degrading and stereotyping myself now.

Back to the topic... i would just like to point out that if ur single then u dont have anyone elses feelings to consider. But when ur in a relationship u do. Would it be really that bad if ur partner (guy or girl) asked u to stop watching porn they feel a little degraded or whatever by it, would it be such a big thing to give it up? yes, u may argue that that would be ur partner trying to "change you" but lack of porn is not changing who you are. i would feel that a person quitting smoking would be a bigger deal, yet people do that all the time for their partners.
I actually would consider asking a partner to give up porn to be slightly a big deal, atleast in this situation. You recognize the fact that you don't really enjoy sex so right there you and your partners sex drives are way out of sync. On top of that asking your partner to give up there other release just seems unfair.
 

zehydra

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Porn appeals to male human nature. Someone who watches porn for logical reasons is missing the point entirely.