Relationship virgins.

[TheMarkedOne]

I had never kissed someone till I was 19, neither been in a serious relationship.

Wouldn't count a girl cheating on her boyfriend with me for 5 months a relationship, really caused me a lot of pain too. Now almost half a year later, it still leaves it's mark on me.
I really loved her, but she couldn't leave him. It was my first real love, nothing like with another girl before which didn't work out anyway. (And it wasn't me who made the first move btw)
Slightly getting over her, let's hope I'll have some more luck in the future soon.

But yeah, I'm in the same boat as you, don't really feel too well doing all this stuff so late, or haven't even done it yet.
But I hope your first kiss will be one far better than mine to look back upon <_<

 

[Lordmarkus]

Soon 18 and no relationships here and good God I feel like a stereotype for admitting it. Also, I would lie if I didn'y say I'm becoming a teeny weeny bit desperate.

Well, the occasional jokes makes the pain go away.

 

[Big-T]

19 years old, and girls is not the problem, relationships are.

honestly dont rush into relationships just cuz u want to, im not even thinking about a serious relationship, just enjoy being single, cuz almost everyone who isnt single, WANTS to be single again.

 

[Ossian]

The new term for School is coming, I'm going to renew my social policies and start talking to women I guess.

 

[jigilojoe]

I'm 16, I've had sex but I've never had a relationship. Alcohol is the best invention ever.

 

[Aurora Firestorm]

I am 23 and I have never been in a relationship. I have never went on a date before either. The reason I have never been in a relationship is because I don't want to be in one. I don't like children and one reason I stay out of relationships is so I don't become a parent.

it's quite possible to be in a relationship without the risk of getting kids (safe sex and all that), but i suppose the real issue is finding someone else who shares in you lack of interest to not have kids.
Possible though, i heard about a couple that got married and actively decided not to have kids (they got a lot crap for it tho from their friends)

Yes. It's completely possible to be in a relationship or married and not ever have children, or plan to. Parents of the current generation usually whine (I hate the idea of having kids, and my parents say I'll never know true love unless I have some, for example), but ignore them.

My boyfriend and I have randomly talked about the kids thing, and we both agree that we will not have kids at the very least in the prime of our lives. Kids are such an expenditure of time, freedom, and resources...and he may just teach kids, because that's really how he likes to interact with them, and there will be no kids.

These people exist! Keep looking.

 

[Nickolai77]

If you don't want to be a relationship virgin, get out in the world and meet people. Join a social club, get a job and hang out with work colleges, have a large and diverse social network...just meet lots of people in different ways and hopefully you'll find someone of interest.

Once you've done that, you've got the "oh-so-fun" process of trying to get "into" a relationship, something I've yet to succeed in doing. (I'm 20 years old.) That said, i'm not a relationship virgin, because my ex-girlfriend did all the work for me by ringing me repeatedly until we were in a relationship. Unfortunately, most girls expect you to do the heavy lifting here...some guy's love it, others like me hate it.

*snips*

You know, i get jealous of people like you whom are able to walk through life being happy singletons. >.<
My mind puts a metaphorical gun to my head and virtually bullies me into seeking relationships....

 

[BruceyBaby]

I'm 22.

I've had sex with 3 girls, done all except anal.

I've never been in a relationship, even though I've wanted one.

I'm a good looking guy, but I have really bad mood swings, which stops me from having anything long term. Really sucks. Sometimes I feel like I would swap my looks just to have a fucking normal personality.

 

[Jewrean]

I'm wondering how many of you out there have never been in a relationship and are adults (18+) Is this considered weird?

I'm 21 and never even held a girl's hand in a romantic way much less kissed or dated one. I've only asked one girl out and she said she couldn't date. I really liked another girl but she has no interest.
Besides that I've had no social fields to find anyone. (I came from being homeschooled)

How many are like me out there?

I've just turned 24. I've been in one very short relationship but that's about it. Still looking.

 

[DesiPrinceX09]

I am 18 and I have never been in anything even remotely close to a relationship.

 

[Rednog]

24 Never really had a g/f.
I've had/have a ton of friends who are females its just I was never really interested in relationships until I was like 18. I've asked a girl out since then, she said she needed to think about it, took her 3 months to say yes but due to life circumstances/changes we never got together and we haven't talked since then.
I dunno, I blame myself, I'm a fairly unattractive borderline (probably fully) fugly.

 

[godfist88]

By social standards, I'm probably classified as having a disorder. I've never so much as been hugged in real life before >>

wait you've never even been hugged? that stinks

OT: as for me i've never been in a relationship, i haven't even worked up the courage to ask anyone out on a single date. it really sucks.

 

[smithy_2045]

20, never dated let alone have a relationship.

 

[A_Parked_Car]

I'm 19 and haven't had a relationship. Not even a close friendship really. Obviously that means I haven't had anything like sex or whatnot. I haven't even held hands or been hugged by a girl, so yeah. You aren't alone haha, I hope that makes you feel better.

 

[Yureina]

Many here I think, if I remember the last topic like this.

I was 18 before I had sex, so I can kind of see your problem... but you've never dated at all? It's been three years since home schooling, guy. Get on out there.

I don't often suggest this... but you may need to hire a hooker. You're way behind on the game, and dating will be hard if your acting like a 12 year old, blushing from physical contact. There are many prostitutes that will understand (And even cook you dinner!). I suggest you find one.

I find this post offensive.

Nobody is "behind the game" at 21, and talking like that with anyone is not helpful for them at all. Everyone has their own pace for things, and it is they who decide what that pace is, and not some arbitrary "rules" society has about when someone should do certain things.

OT: Been in relationships, but I tend to avoid them for the most part. I wouldn't call myself a "relationship virgin", but I don't have as much experience as I would prefer. I prefer taking a smaller number, but having all of them be special. :3

By social standards, I'm probably classified as having a disorder. I've never so much as been hugged in real life before >>

I'd hug you, but you already knew that. :3

 

[WorldCritic]

I'm 19 and have been in a couple relationships, though I wouldn't consider myself lucky to have been in them.
"Tis better to have loved and lost, then to have never loved at all," or something like that. Honestly I don't think whoever said that had someone like my ex-girlfriend in mind at the time.

 

[HentMas]

I'm wondering how many of you out there have never been in a relationship and are adults (18+) Is this considered weird?

I'm 21 and never even held a girl's hand in a romantic way much less kissed or dated one. I've only asked one girl out and she said she couldn't date. I really liked another girl but she has no interest.
Besides that I've had no social fields to find anyone. (I came from being homeschooled)

How many are like me out there?

21... no romantic interest... home schooled

why is your avatar soo apropiate??? great image too!!

OT: no.... i wouldnt know, i´m that kindof guy that just HAVES to be in a relationship else he feels lonely and pathetic, so i hit on everything that moves and if it doesnt move, i kick it so that it moves

yeah, i´m the guy that asks every girl in a party at least once if she would make plans for the next day (with me)

but hey!, thats just me.

 

[Hollock]

I've never been in a relationship (17, turning 18 soon enough), but I'm getting less worried about it. I've only ever attempted once last year (before that I was never interested in anyone). And I only really have two real friends (that is to say people I talk to and hang out with outside of school). But when I think about it, most of my friends at school are girls, and they don't seem to have a problem with me. Also when I did my dance semester (I won the big competition at the end and the gym teacher framed a quote I said before the final round thank you) in gym class and consistantly had to talk to new girls, I became Various charming characters probably played by Bill Murray. And there were several occasions where they had to stop dancing because I was making them laugh so hard. My problem is that I've been going to school with the same people for the last 13 years and have to meet new people. Also people probably think I'm crazy because I rarely talk, but when I do I turn into Bill Murray say something deadpan, or say something like John Lovitz as the master thespian. Whatever I have 6 more months of high school left and I can start my life. But whats the deal with getting with girls right away, or slowly going from friends to into a relationship?

 

[Julianking93]

By social standards, I'm probably classified as having a disorder. I've never so much as been hugged in real life before >>

I'd hug you, but you already knew that. :3

Teehee. You know I'd hug you too, Rei ^-^
*snuggles*

 

[LightningBanks]

Im currently im my first relationship, and its slightly annoying that she feels more like a coach than a girlfriend.

But meh, Ill get used to it after a while. I have some catching up to do