So Let's Talk About Sex....

[Yureina]

I completely agree with you Julian, but you already knew that didn't you?

22 and no relationships for me, nor am I looking for one. In theory I guess I'm a virgin, but in practice that is... debatable. I've never bought into sex in general, much less of the casual variety. There is just something that really disturbs me about that sort of stuff, and like Julian it has absolutely nothing to do with religious upbringing.

 

[Iron Lightning]

I'm apathetic, my philosophy is:

"If it feels groovy, and doesn't harm anyone, then do it."

So I'll pretty much go along with whatever my partner at the time wants. I do prefer polyamourus relationships, but I'm open-minded enough to do whatever as long as I get some.

Currently, I'm married to porn, and our relationship has lost its spark.

 

[LemonMelon]

I love sexy sex.

I have a dear friend who gets bored very easily in relationships, but is also very afraid to be single. She has a tendency to prefer sex over love. Personally I see nothing wrong with casual sex. If you'd rather fuck than love, then who's to say you're wrong?

For me, personally, I only have sex with someone I'm committed to. It's a very personal thing to me, and I don't like to just give it out for the sake of pleasure. Though the concept of "NO PENIS TIL I GET A RING" is really not suited for me. I take a "try before you buy" stance on that.

 

[SimuLord]

I spent the bulk of my early twenties trying to fuck as many willing, attractive women as possible. I lived by a creed of "do whatever sounds the most awesome in the retelling so I won't have to bullshit when I tell stories." I got it out of my system, all the tests came back negative, and due to a long story I won't go into detail with here (except to say "when she says she's on birth control, you'd better damn well see her pop the pill with your own eyes"---note that I don't have kids. Let your imagination fill in the blanks) my current rule of thumb is "never have sex with any girl unless I'm sure in my mind I could live with her being the mother of my children."

Right now I'm single by choice---really hoping the next girl will be "the one" and not jumping into anything in the meantime. Applications and "ship-the-Escapists" can be submitted to the HR office

Edit: And for those wondering about the "body count", I've been with 16 women in 16 years since I lost my virginity the day after I turned 17 in 1994.

 

[drisky]

As far as I can tell, I'm asexual.

So, I couldn't care less about it, except when a video game decides to throw a pair of boobs or whatever in my face. Then I just sigh and chalk it up to a lack of originality in design. Is that really the only thing you could come up with to make people wanna play?

Ironic given your avatar.

Anyways personally, I don't make a big deal about sex, and I'm not found of casual sex. In fact I'm a virgin right now but I had an opportunity for casual sex and I turned it down, just not something I'd do.

 

[Nostalgia Ripoff]

Honestly, I think that people should just do whatever the hell they want. If someone wants to wait for the right person, fine. More power to them. If someone wants to sleep around, I'm not gonna stop them. Unless they catch a disease. Then I'd tell them they have to stop.

 

[helldragonX]

Sex for me is very intimate. It is a way for me to connect with the her. It strengthens the bond with her. But if I can't Satisfy her, I encourage her to find someone who can.

 

[Underground Man]

As far as I can tell, I'm asexual.

So, I couldn't care less about it, except when a video game decides to throw a pair of boobs or whatever in my face. Then I just sigh and chalk it up to a lack of originality in design. Is that really the only thing you could come up with to make people wanna play?

Ironic given your avatar.

Anyways personally, I don't make a big deal about sex, and I'm not found of casual sex. In fact I'm a virgin right now but I had an opportunity for casual sex and I turned it down, just not something I'd do.

Zelos is the greatest character in that game -- you can really tell the devs put a lot of love into designing him. But mostly he's my favorite because the ladiez give me free stuff. =3

As for his other accomplishments, I try not to think about the "technical" details.

As far as those things go, people should be able to do (or not do) whatever/whomever they like as long as involved parties agree. Why make things more complicated than that?

 

[Stevo_s]

Well sex is fun its really fun!
I mean its awesome! its just that sleeping around like that just seems wrong to me.
There is a line (at least I think so) and doing thirty guys within two years.. that pretty slutty to me.
Guys I view as the same way. If he has no respect for women then why the hell should I have any respect for him it pisses me off when guys say they have fucked all these girls, makes them seem like objects.
I mean I am having sex with this girl and shes awesome im not in love with her but i do love her. if she were to sleep with so many guys i would stop hanging around with her.
I really dont know why its coming into another age of free sex but I sure as hell think its disgraceful.

 

[Stevo_s]

Anyways personally, I don't make a big deal about sex, and I'm not found of casual sex. In fact I'm a virgin right now but I had an opportunity for casual sex and I turned it down, just not something I'd do.

Dude I am sorry really I am but you shouldn't turn down casual sex unless the girl looks like she has STDs. Once you do have sex youll realize (or at least I did) that causal sex is fun just as long as you dont over do it.

 

[brainfreeze215]

I don't really like the idea of sleeping around either, I just don't think my mind works that way. I would much rather sleep with someone I care about, since in my mind sex is an emotional experience more so than just physical. It can be just physical, but I wouldn't enjoy it as much.

And, for demographic reasons, I'm 21, non-religious and non-virgin.

 

[Thebiggestpanda]

I'm not gonna go into detail but I actually got a certain kind of job a little after I graduated highschool. IMO the life gets old fast and it kinda ruined a few things emotionally. Oh well, past is past.

 

[Ham_authority95]

While it would sit well with me, I have nothing against it as long as they don't go around spreading STD's or unwanted pregnancies.

 

[Hashime]

She lost her virginity at seventeen? Damn, that's late. My friend's son was born when we were in eighth grade.

Besides, sex (as with anything humans do) has no meaning except the continuation of the species, nothing more.

Late? Is your town full of sluts?
In my town the mean is 19-20.

 

[Direwolf750]

your hand does not give you the same satisfaction. Trust me. IT DOES NOT! neither for the guy or the girl. Sex is way better feeling in practically every way. That said, I don't necessarily condone sleeping around. If you want to have sex with every person with a hole/dick I guess that is your choice, but it just becomes meaningless in the end.

Besides, no guy likes the idea of sleeping with a girl who has had too many partners. Its just kinda...ew.

 

[Hairetos]

I like the idea of open relationships, just not the idea of overdoing it. Then it's just kinda gross.

Don't give a crap about love/marriage or anything like that though. Intimacy is best shown emotionally and communicatively.

 

[latenightapplepie]

Eh. I prefer not to judge people for being a little promiscuous and having some casual sex. There's nothing really wrong with that. Hell, provided it's safe and both parties know that it isn't anything more than sex but neither treats the other in a demeaning, dehumanising way, I applaud people for it.

I can't bring myself to do it because sex is still a little bit strange and frightening to me. Give me some time, and experience, and I might be able to become a little more sexually liberated. Maybe.

 

[2fish]

Anyways personally, I don't make a big deal about sex, and I'm not found of casual sex. In fact I'm a virgin right now but I had an opportunity for casual sex and I turned it down, just not something I'd do.

Dude I am sorry really I am but you shouldn't turn down casual sex unless the girl looks like she has STDs. Once you do have sex youll realize (or at least I did) that causal sex is fun just as long as you dont over do it.

I am afraid I must disagree with you. There are many reasons to turn it down. My main reason is that the girls that have been available in my life set off many red flags. Primarily the she is emotionaly unstable or she is clingy, ect alarms. That's a damn good reason to say no. I will wait for a sane and clean girl. I will grant you than some of the females may have been drunk, but when the alarms go off I cut them out of the picture no matter what.

I back drisky, after all I also don't make a big thing of sex. Sex is just a physical act, not an elite club.

 

[demoman_chaos]

I don't understand random sex. When you have sex with someone, you are having sex with everyone they have been with, and everyone those people have been with and so on. If anyone in that tree has an STD, you do too. Condoms work, but I wouldn't rely on them for it only takes 1 falure to ruin you.

 

[SimuLord]

I am afraid I must disagree with you. There are many reasons to turn it down. My main reason is that the girls that have been available in my life set off many red flags. Primarily the she is emotionaly unstable or she is clingy, ect alarms. That's a damn good reason to say no. I will wait for a sane and clean girl. I will grant you than some of the females may have been drunk, but when the alarms go off I cut them out of the picture no matter what.

I back drisky after all I also don't make a big thing of sex. Sex is just a physical act, not an elite club.

Emotionally unstable can be dangerous depending on the kind of instability. Clingy by itself is not necessarily a bad thing if you've got enough of a dominant personality to deal with the care and feeding of someone who is more pet than girlfriend.

As far as having the stink of excessive alcohol consumption on her, that's enough of a turnoff with me that it's easy to turn her down.