So Let's Talk About Sex....
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It's assonance (repetition of vowel sounds).mysoxsmell said:
OT: I guess I don't have a problem with it, unless unwanted children become involved. Seriously, wrap it up, dudes.
A few thoughts:
What I don't understand is how some guys can go around having sex with hundreds of women and never get really bad STDs or have a lot of illegitimate children running around. I guess they're either careful about screening their partners, or the Pope is a liar and condoms actually work (big surprise, I know).
Personally, I can see the appeal of banging a different chick each night, but I think it really depends on what type of person you are. Me, I could probably bang the same chick for at least a month or two before I was ready to move on to the next one. If she had a good personality I could probably keep her around for even longer.
Overall, I really don't think casual sex is for me. Even assuming contraceptives and STD protection are reliable, there's still a lot of risk involved in terms of meeting a chick that's a complete psycho and having her stalk you and harass your future relations. I guess the mack daddies out there know how to screen for that kind of stuff, but I don't and I'm worried about making a mistake early on that's going to haunt me later.
21 year old male virgin here.
I myself believe that, if you find someone who you love and want to be with, and that someone feels the same towards you, and you both want to have sex, that's alright. Doesn't matter if it's before or after marriage. I don't like people who have had sexual partners in the double digit or triple digit numbers, but if they keep it to themselves, that's fine. Let them live their lives, I'll live mine as I and my partner see fit.
I myself believe that, if you find someone who you love and want to be with, and that someone feels the same towards you, and you both want to have sex, that's alright. Doesn't matter if it's before or after marriage. I don't like people who have had sexual partners in the double digit or triple digit numbers, but if they keep it to themselves, that's fine. Let them live their lives, I'll live mine as I and my partner see fit.
I prefer to wait to have sex with someone I really care about and trust (thus far I have only one sexual partner, my current girlfriend).
However, what others choose to do with their lives is none of my concern. If someone else is happy and fulfilled by having sex with hundreds of casual partners, more power to them! It's not for me, but neither am I interested in sports, fancy cars, smoking, etc, and I certainly don't speak against any of those interests. Why would sex be any different?
However, what others choose to do with their lives is none of my concern. If someone else is happy and fulfilled by having sex with hundreds of casual partners, more power to them! It's not for me, but neither am I interested in sports, fancy cars, smoking, etc, and I certainly don't speak against any of those interests. Why would sex be any different?
Personally, I think who you do it with is more important than how often you do it.
I'm 16, I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 14 to some one whom I loved more than anything. We did it once, occasionally twice, a week for about a year, so for the time our relationship lasted. Sadly, she cheated on me, ending it.
I have had relationships sinse then, including casual sex; however, it hasn't been as special when it wasn't with that one person.
Basically, I'm all for sex, whether it be casual or romantic, and it doesn't matter how often you do it with, only who. Say, if you had sex a lot within (For the sake f simplicity) a Month, but with only one or two (Or even three) people then that doesn't make you a "slut". If you have sex as regularly within the same month, but with five or six people, in my opinion, that doesn't make you a "slut" either, just simply seeking bodily pleasures.
To summarise, Casual Sex is pleasure for two people who aren't in a committed relationship, regardless of how many people you do it with.
[sub]Cheating, however, is another story...[/sub]
I'm 16, I'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity at 14 to some one whom I loved more than anything. We did it once, occasionally twice, a week for about a year, so for the time our relationship lasted. Sadly, she cheated on me, ending it.
I have had relationships sinse then, including casual sex; however, it hasn't been as special when it wasn't with that one person.
Basically, I'm all for sex, whether it be casual or romantic, and it doesn't matter how often you do it with, only who. Say, if you had sex a lot within (For the sake f simplicity) a Month, but with only one or two (Or even three) people then that doesn't make you a "slut". If you have sex as regularly within the same month, but with five or six people, in my opinion, that doesn't make you a "slut" either, just simply seeking bodily pleasures.
To summarise, Casual Sex is pleasure for two people who aren't in a committed relationship, regardless of how many people you do it with.
[sub]Cheating, however, is another story...[/sub]
I agree completely.Levitas1234 said:
My other friend lost his virginity in fifth grade.captaincabbage said:
I wasted my youth having casual sex, but now that I'm an old dude, I feel like the only way to have sex is with a normal relationship with me wife.
I will be honest; I have trouble thinking about a girl romantically if I know she has had several previous partners. It bothers me that I have waited (and am still waiting) patently for "the one" and they started sleeping around as soon as they got their contraceptive pills.
It also has to do with the fact that I am in no hurry to get into a relationship. I can wait as long as I live for my ?perfect girl? and if I never meet her, then I?m not really to bothered.
It also has to do with the fact that I am in no hurry to get into a relationship. I can wait as long as I live for my ?perfect girl? and if I never meet her, then I?m not really to bothered.
I dont know if i could live in a open relationship. Well if you set your rules and it works, maybe it can work out, i dont know.
I am very lucky with my "normal" relationship, some friends of mine spice up their live by taking 1 or two additional people in their beds, well i guess that works better than "roaming free" on your own in a open relationship.
When it comes to casual sex. well, i had it and i loved it. It's not that i went out every night looking for someone to screw. But when i met a girl on a concert/party/festival/coffeeshop and i was very attracted to her and the funny butterfly feeling in your tummy starts, well it hasnt always to lead to a relationship, perhaps you see that you dont really fit that much, but you still can share a nice night together.
Well or you are just friends, like yourselfs very much, and then the good ol'alcodevil comes in play, hasnt to be a bad thing either.
Well or sometimes, when occasions i mentioned above havent happened in like a few month, you just take someone from a club. Humans are nothing but animals too sometimes.
What i just can't understand is the guys stating "yeah sex is great, i love it. But i don't want the girl to have slept with too many guys." As if its ok if they do it but it isnt the other way around. Thats infinatly moronic .
I am very lucky with my "normal" relationship, some friends of mine spice up their live by taking 1 or two additional people in their beds, well i guess that works better than "roaming free" on your own in a open relationship.
When it comes to casual sex. well, i had it and i loved it. It's not that i went out every night looking for someone to screw. But when i met a girl on a concert/party/festival/coffeeshop and i was very attracted to her and the funny butterfly feeling in your tummy starts, well it hasnt always to lead to a relationship, perhaps you see that you dont really fit that much, but you still can share a nice night together.
Well or you are just friends, like yourselfs very much, and then the good ol'alcodevil comes in play, hasnt to be a bad thing either.
Well or sometimes, when occasions i mentioned above havent happened in like a few month, you just take someone from a club. Humans are nothing but animals too sometimes.
What i just can't understand is the guys stating "yeah sex is great, i love it. But i don't want the girl to have slept with too many guys." As if its ok if they do it but it isnt the other way around. Thats infinatly moronic .
As a guy, I think the idea of casual sex is cool in theory - being able to hook up with and shag someone whenever you want sounds kinda neat. I can definitely see the appeal.
However I've always been a commitment type guy, and I'd rather have a meaningful relationship than a lot of sex. Sex with someone you have a meaningful relationship with feels right.
I guess I also get jealous easily, so I'd hate to think the girl I'm with is also with a bunch of other guys at the same time, and it would be hypocritical to think someone I won't commit to would commit to me.
At the end of the day, I'm married and have no interest in any women aside from my wife anyway.
However I've always been a commitment type guy, and I'd rather have a meaningful relationship than a lot of sex. Sex with someone you have a meaningful relationship with feels right.
I guess I also get jealous easily, so I'd hate to think the girl I'm with is also with a bunch of other guys at the same time, and it would be hypocritical to think someone I won't commit to would commit to me.
At the end of the day, I'm married and have no interest in any women aside from my wife anyway.
I have been with 3 guys, one was casual and he was the worst by far(the other two were virgins and he was still way worse). I don't know if that's the luck of the draw or cause it was unattached sex. So from my experience I would say go for the more romantic sex.
I'm not completely settled on any of this, but I am okay with casual sex; however, kissing is sort of a thing I would only be comfortable doing with someone I feel I love. To me, sex can be done for the pleasure of it, while kissing is an expression of love.
So? Are you trying to prove something? All it proves is that losing your virginity in 5th grade is fucked up, no matter how you look at it, boy or girl.The Man With the Soap said:
What the fuck?EmileeElectro said:
Who are "people like that"? You mean those who have casual sex, they deserve an STD/STI? even if they're practising safe sex, which can't be said for most people in relationships.
Some yes, need to boost their self esteem for 1/2 hour and that's very sad and I do feel sorry for them as something is missing in their lives, but most just love sex?
I'e slept with a lot of people, but I love sex, I have no issues regarding my self esteem and I did not deserve an STI (which I've never had) because I practised safe sex.
As long as you use protection and all parties involved are willing then I see absolutely no problem with casual sex.
Sex is a wonderful thing that can be shared between two or more people on many levels. While sex as the purest expression of love is a truly amazing and beautiful thing, everything you have sex does not need to be an expression of complete love.
That would be like having a pen and a piece of paper and only ever being allowed to write in iambic pentameter.
Some people I have made love to, some people I have fucked, some people I have had sex with, all having very different emotional context, some without any emotional context at all other than two people enjoying something together.
Sex is a wonderful thing that can be shared between two or more people on many levels. While sex as the purest expression of love is a truly amazing and beautiful thing, everything you have sex does not need to be an expression of complete love.
That would be like having a pen and a piece of paper and only ever being allowed to write in iambic pentameter.
Some people I have made love to, some people I have fucked, some people I have had sex with, all having very different emotional context, some without any emotional context at all other than two people enjoying something together.
lol that's all you can come up with? to poke fun at my avatar? nice job man.The Man With the Soap said: