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He's defiantly not homophobic, he's in the same gay rights group I'm in, I've just never asked him directly about his sexual orientation. I think I'll take that advise though, thanks.Jarimir said:
Face to face is the best way to go with things for me, but that's because I'm about as subtle as a moose on the railroad tracks. Normally I just start chatting with someone and ask if they're free for lunch, if lunch goes well, I ask if they'd like to meet up again.
Written words work pretty well if you can't get your mouth working and know your way around a pen, but for heaven's sake put them on paper. Write carefully and neatly, fold it properly, put it in an envelope, and hand it to her in person. That way you can be sure to get everything you want to say down, without worrying about going all bashful on her halfway through.
Not that she won't know what's going on when you hand over the envelope, but if you're stuck looking at your shoes after that it's sort of okay, because it's all written down.
Not that she won't know what's going on when you hand over the envelope, but if you're stuck looking at your shoes after that it's sort of okay, because it's all written down.
The escapists are such jokers never taking anything seriously, chloroform and vans. Just hit him/her with a spade.
Any guy I'm vaguely attracted to the universe turns off any and all attraction for me that they might have. While the horrible jerks seem to think im some sort of goddess.
So I don't bother anymore. It's not worth the heartache.
So I don't bother anymore. It's not worth the heartache.
You say you try to deny your animalistic side, yet still masturbate?KingGolem said:
Your logic just seems to be "to follow the Id wherever it may go except when it involves having to share or otherwise adapt to something."
I seriously want to know what your end goal in life could be and how having a meaningful relationship could compromise that.
Girl I Like: Hey whats up.
Me: I kinda have a personal question.
GIL: Sure ask away.
ME: Well you see I really like you, your beautiful, smart, funny, I had never met someone until I liked being with all the time until I met you but I have a problem.
GIL (starts to blush): Whats that?
Me: I have absolutly no idea how to ask you out, do you have any suggestions.
Works everytime.
Me: I kinda have a personal question.
GIL: Sure ask away.
ME: Well you see I really like you, your beautiful, smart, funny, I had never met someone until I liked being with all the time until I met you but I have a problem.
GIL (starts to blush): Whats that?
Me: I have absolutly no idea how to ask you out, do you have any suggestions.
Works everytime.
Ugh, this is becoming tiresome. The logic of the GROUP dictates that the needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few, but the logic of the individual would beg to differ. I am not concerned with what is best for "the many" if it means that I am disadvantaged. My logic is that what is best for me is best for me, and if "the many" requires me to make a sacrifice for their benefit, then that is not best for me. Egotism and selfishness are, in my opinion, the only logical positions. After all, nobody (or very few, I guess) goes to work because they want to help their fellow man: they do it for the money that they need to help themselves. What is so mystifying about that?Jarimir said:
As for the prenuptual agreement: Not only do I doubt that a woman would agree to my idea of a prenuptual agreement, but that also does nothing to mitigate the other risks and sacrifices of marriage. Thus concludes my final word on the matter.
Ah, but you see, I only try to deny my animalistic side when it stands to do me harm. Masturbation, however, is not only harmless but beneficial, as it provides a means to placate the animalistic part of my brain.z121231211 said:
As for my ultimate goal, I intend to become as wealthy and successful as possible, and have nobody else to take from me my wealth and success or tell me how to enjoy it. Women are very good at both, I've noticed.
I talk to her a bit. See if we connect and then ask her out. If she says yes, then great! If she says no or makes and excuse, then I movie on. That's all there is too it. A girl will no if she wants to date you that quick.
Simple, Face-To-Face, as there is likely a larger chance of getting rejected through other services.
I already have a form of permanent birth control. It's called a vow of chastity. If you've been following along, you know that I place no value on sexual intercourse and see unecessary risk and sacrifice in a relationship. Problem solved, indeed.Father Time said:
See, this is kind of rough for me because I need to get to know a girl pretty well first so usually I'll just ask her to hang out, and this can be done through texts or whatever really (I actually have a 'hang out' set up for Monday that we set up through facebook), usually this means I'm interested but I'm not at the point of wanting a date. Now I might move the relationship up during one of these hang out but more likely is that I'll keep it platonic ask them on the date towards the end that way we have rapport built up so it's easier for both of us to tell the other is interested.
And frankly I'd advise any guy interested in a girl to do the same, but remember to keep it platonic so you can get an accurate judgment of how much you like them and visa-versa. One other small thing: never be afraid of rejection, it's better to try and shutdown than to keep it bottled up. I've seen one too many wonderful women walk out of my life for my lack of saying anything.
And frankly I'd advise any guy interested in a girl to do the same, but remember to keep it platonic so you can get an accurate judgment of how much you like them and visa-versa. One other small thing: never be afraid of rejection, it's better to try and shutdown than to keep it bottled up. I've seen one too many wonderful women walk out of my life for my lack of saying anything.