Boudica said:
Matthew94 said:
Boudica said:
Matthew94 said:
Boudica said:
Matthew94 said:
Boudica said:
I like the fem-dom kind of BDSM roleplay, personally. I don't like the male dominant version because I dislike men having any power.
Are you serious?
The more you post the less I can take you seriously. "Feminism is a celebration of women, that's why I hate men".
Guuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrl, sort yourself out. Mmmm hmmm
You're going to have to show me where I said I hate men. I'd really like to see this magical ability of yours to summon forth things people never said. You should also probably explain to my boyfriend that I hate him.
Seems like major issues with men if you (and I quote) "dislike men having any power".
That's not a healthy attitude.
Oh, you can't show that I "hate men"? Odd that you would make the claim, knowing you cannot support it.
Guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurl, you keep paying yo gamez yo!
It does seem like a major dislike or even hatred of them if you (and I quote) "dislike men having any power".
Would you care to elaborate on why you feel men shouldn't have any power?
I feel no urge to explain anything to someone that begins a conversation with accusations they cannot prove.
Mr F. said:
Considering you can argue that all heterosexual sex is rape and sexist.
Well, you
could argue that, but you could also argue gravity doesn't exist.
Bahahaha.
Please note, the name (Mr. F) and now I will drop in that I am a bisexual and that the argument that all heterosexual sex is rape is not one that I agree with on any level, it is just down to the nature of academia and feminist theory.
I mean, hell, the theory that I will now explain (Which, again, I do not agree with) came out of feminism which is something I am given to understand that you agree with. I am using it as an extreme example to try and explain why people need to start seperating theory from reality.
In society women have less power then men, correct? As a result of this, they have less agency when compared to men, they do not have as much choice in their decisions. Now, factor this in to sex. Because women have less agency, their consent is worth less then a mans. Because their consent is worth less, it can be argued that their consent was not "True" consent due to the nature of society. Ergo, the sex that occured was rape.
Doop de doo.
But if you were arguing against the existence of reality you could not really use well established theories within your argument. But that argument, the one I just outlined, exists. It is abused by some radical feminsits (Occasionally called Feminazi's by morons) but for many within the feminist community it is a point of some contention and something to be discussed.
Because if you accept that women have less power then men, which most feminsits do (Its sorta one of the points behind feminism) then you accept they have less agency, if you accept they have less agency then they cannot make full consent, ergo rape. Again, I do not agree with the argument at all (Just making that clear)
I made the point because, well, whilst BDSM might be sexist if you analyse it (And come on, it all plays on power fantasys and whatnot. It would not even be hard to explain why Femdom is sexist against women.) and if you approach it with an understanding of feminist theory, in reality it is not sexist. Like the rape scenario I just gave you, acccording to theory it is one thing but in reality we know it to be another.
And if people cannot start making that definition, if people cannot play nice, people in general should just fuck off. If we started discussing the realities of sexism (And not getting bogged down in theories and name calling) then this discussion would be worth something.
But we wont.
Someone will get called a feminazi
I will be called a White Knight
And some feminist will call someone a "Misogynistic Woman Hating Pig"
(see what i did there)
