CriticKitten said:
I don't think it's prediction, per se.
How would you describe it, then, when she sets events in motion such that her entire strategy depends on guessing correctly how another party will react?
CriticKitten said:
She, Lupa, and Holly are all known to be friends with each other.
And we can't believe when they say they aren't, because saying they aren't is proof they are. Right, then.
CriticKitten said:
It's funny, I pointed out that money was most likely NOT the reason but that it existed as a motive regardless.
I did not say you said it's the reason. I said I dismiss it as a possible reason because I believe it's too unlikely.
CriticKitten said:
Or (and this is just a wild notion based on real life, but bear with it) maybe it's not revenge?
I should be pissed off at that bit of parenthetical snark, but it was actually kind of funny, so, props for that. Sorry; please continue with what you were saying.
CriticKitten said:
Maybe she just hates his guts? He doesn't exactly project the cheeriest disposition, the sort of happy persona that you can't help but love, you know.
Then you suggest the triggering event that she seeks to punish is a steady stream of unpleasantness directed at her?
CriticKitten said:
You keep pretending that it's simply not possible for someone to dislike another person for irrational reasons, and yet I'm quite certain you and most anyone else can think of something that you don't or didn't like for either irrational or non-existent reasons.
I do tend to assume that people who are intelligent enough to support themselves financially via their own creative arts are people intelligent enough not to go around hating people for no cause, but that's not really my point. My point is, a lot of people have argued, "Ms. Pregler is out to get Mr. Antwiler!" and, to memory,
you are the only person to suggest a possible reason why she would want to. It's like the proponents of this theory refuse to even imagine a situation in which Mr. Antwiler has done anything that could be perceived as wrong by sane people, so the theory hinges on the idea that all the women in the case are insane and hate him because the voices in their heads tell them to.
CriticKitten said:
I'm not convinced that such a plot necessarily has to hinge on revenge at all.
Fair enough.
CriticKitten said:
You could have saved yourself a lot of time by writing what you really meant:
"I have no way of proving that it is projection, therefore you are right, it's just a meaningless and stupid ad hominem attack and I apologize for insulting you for no reason."
So you deny that you can learn who someone is by listening to the stories he tells?
CriticKitten said:
No one said you did, but if you intend to convince people to believe your point of view, then be willing to offer up evidence.
I was willing; I was also unable, since, once again, the source I was citing had been deleted and I couldn't even remember the full name of the fellow taking credit. Do not conflate inability with unwillingness.
CriticKitten said:
And don't insult people when they refuse to buy into your argument without evidence.
Either you're very thin-skinned or I'm calloused to the point of a total loss of empathy, because while I can sort of dimly understand why you might think the uncomplimentary things I've said about you previously are "personal attacks," I have no idea what in the paragraph you were quoting counts as an insult. Or are you just throwing this out as some kind of obfuscation defense, to remind everyone that I'm the bad guy because I say mean things? No, seriously, that option is the only one I can come up with that makes any sense to me, and it doesn't even make that much sense.
CriticKitten said:
You most certainly have. You're trying to dismiss my argument by suggesting that it's "projection" (which is a personal attack), and on multiple occasions you questioned my intelligence or some other part of me.
No, I have not. Dismissing your theory if I think it has a faulty foundation is not a personal attack; it is the only response I am capable of formulating when I find someone's logic unconvincing, and I doubt very sincerely that you can keep a straight face while suggesting you aren't doing the same to me. That's fine. That's what a debate is.
All the same, I have never said one word about your intelligence. The closest I have come is to say that your opinion of your reading comprehension is overinflated. So what? Reading comprehension is a learned and practiced skill, not some fundamental part of your make-up. I don't think you're as good at it as you do. We disagree on that. Since when is disagreement a personal attack? We also disagree about whether I know people as well as I think I do; were you personally attacking me with that statement?
CriticKitten said:
If you're incapable of civility and you legitimately don't see how you're being rude and inconsiderate of others' opinions right now, then don't expect a conversation with me after this point.
I don't expect anything from you. I am responding to you because I think you are unfairly vilifying a woman who, while not innocent, deserves better than to be cast in the role of the Wicked Stepmother here; and that unfairness offends me, so I have to say something about it.
CriticKitten said:
I have better things to do than try to explain how your behavior is insulting.
And I hope you have fun doing those things. I still think your rush to deny every piece of contrary evidence presented about Mr. Antwiler's termination so that you can craft a story in which there is a villain to blame is insupportable by either logic or the available facts.