I'd wait to see how the scene actually turns out.
Certainly, there's porn sex which is fan-servicy in the extreme and shows little beyond as much genitalia as possible and with a rather clear focus on pure physical release, be it of the participants or the viewer. If it turns out like that then it's indeed a rather lazy attempt at making people care.
But there's more genuine sex as well. Which doesn't even have to show any explicit details whatsoever nor any focus on the eventual orgasm. Where it's entirely possible to convey emotions and relationships beyond simple lust. Don't see any problem with that, it's perfectly realistic writing and, if done right, does depict a very intimate relation between two characters.
Certainly, there's porn sex which is fan-servicy in the extreme and shows little beyond as much genitalia as possible and with a rather clear focus on pure physical release, be it of the participants or the viewer. If it turns out like that then it's indeed a rather lazy attempt at making people care.
But there's more genuine sex as well. Which doesn't even have to show any explicit details whatsoever nor any focus on the eventual orgasm. Where it's entirely possible to convey emotions and relationships beyond simple lust. Don't see any problem with that, it's perfectly realistic writing and, if done right, does depict a very intimate relation between two characters.