CritialGaming said:
What if her girlfriend is trans? Or a hermaphrodite? Technically she might still like the cock. Hell she could even be Bi-sexual. The comic reveals ultimately very little about her other than she likes that "girl" right now.
I'm going off the description here, which has been mostly using the term "lesbian" from what I've seen. Which, would by definition mean she isn't into cock. As that would be a bi-sexual. And sure, maybe she is, I don't know, and I don't care. But the term being used so far is "lesbian" and that has a very specific meaning. If it turns out, at a later date, that they further clarify it to being inclusive to men, then I'll stop using the term lesbian. For now though, that's what's being used, so I'm using it.
CritialGaming said:
Which makes the shit flipping even more stupid because they are just assuming.
Kissing a woman, and establishing they have an intimate relationship isn't "assuming", it's working off some fairly specific, published information provided by the creators of the character. BEFORE this comic was published, they were assuming, now, it's less assumption.
CritialGaming said:
I don't understand this personally. I can understand being excited about a strong woman character, or ethnic character of any gender. But sexual preference is such an incredibly SMALL part of who a person is, I don't see why there is such a hubbub about it.
Because there has been little to no positive representation of that demographic for a long time in entertainment, and most of the examples given have usually been support characters who just pop in to say something funny and gay, while the straight main characters do their thing. Or they are so stereotypical LGBT that it hurts the brain. Or they just misrepresented in a lot of ways that make, the group who are being represented, wishing for something more realistic and indicative of who they actually are. Not just some "token queer" or whatever. A fully realized character, with depth and flaws, who also happens to be LGBT.
I think the thing is, or at least partly what bothers some people about this, is that the only way to firmly establish this one aspect of their life, is to show them being intimate with the person, in a way that can't be misconstrued as "projecting". "They're not gay! They're just good friends!" kind of rationalization. So you have them, on screen, clearly and obviously doing something that only an intimate couple would do in such a way. A deep passionate kiss, greeting them at the door in sexy clothing, both of them crawling out of bed in the morning, etc. And for some, this is "shoving their sexuality down our throats!" "Why did you have to show me that!?" Well, so there was no ambiguity about their orientation for one. Maybe it never comes back up again in so blatant a manner, but it has to be done at least once, to make it official.
And to your comment about someone's sexuality being a small part of their lives, that's not true for everyone. And even if it is a small part, it's still a part of their lives. And if it's ok to show that incredibly small part of a heterosexual's life, why not for an LGBT too?
But a name is such a small part of my life, it's just the set of sounds associated with me, that people use to get my attention. That still doesn't change the instinctive reaction I have when a character in a show has my name. I feel a more distinct connection to them than I would have if they were named something else. Nobody else might give a shit that his name is Wesley, but I do, and it invests me more in the story, and that character's involvement in it. So yeah, I can totally see why it matters to some people, to be able to have a role model, or if nothing more than a self-insert that more easily fits their headspace. It makes the entertainment that more enjoyable for them. And I'm fine with that. Her LGBT status doesn't detract any from my enjoyment of the character, because the character, as she is, is enjoyable. Her humor, her love of life and people, her enthusiasm for what she does, etc. That's why I like her, if she also happens to be lesbian, ok then, so what? Hell in a way that makes another thing for me to have in common with her, us both enjoying vaginas, but from different angles.