Unless you then proceed to grab each others rear, junk and then make out i'm pretty sure it's not gay.
Two men hugging means they're gay?
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REALLY depends on the context. Meeting each other for lunch and greeting him with a hug is a bit weird, but if your best friend just won a major life changing award and you're insanely happy for him then for God's sake HUG THE MAN!!!
I'm well aware of that, being gay myself, I was just saying it very hypocritical that two guys hugging is gay to people, but when me and my gf hug in public, or even when we kiss, people assume were just best friends or something, it makes no sense to me.Aethren said:
Why the hell is "gay" an insult -.-
I don't get it, if two guys are bro's it's not gay. In fact, I consider it a higher form of intimacy and friendship. But no one wants to hug me -.-
I don't get it, if two guys are bro's it's not gay. In fact, I consider it a higher form of intimacy and friendship. But no one wants to hug me -.-
Hugging? Totally. Slapping your team mates' asses as a way to say good job? Totally not gay.
Am I sensing a double standard here? XD
Am I sensing a double standard here? XD
Geez I thought people were better than this.
My friend sucking my cock or visa versa - is gay. Hot gay anal sex, meaning you can't sit down for the next week due to a sore ass - is gay.
If you're so insecure that you can't even hug a friend or shake their hands because OH GOD NO IT'S GAY, then really you probably are hiding something...
Please remind anyone who ever says two heterosexual men hugging, IS GAY that as a proper 'gay' I hug heterosexual friends all the time, and it's not gay at all. It's you know called being 'friendly' if people honestly think to stay straight you have to be as butch, manly and in anyway not thinking of other guys. Then it's probably a cover up act.
My friend sucking my cock or visa versa - is gay. Hot gay anal sex, meaning you can't sit down for the next week due to a sore ass - is gay.
If you're so insecure that you can't even hug a friend or shake their hands because OH GOD NO IT'S GAY, then really you probably are hiding something...
Please remind anyone who ever says two heterosexual men hugging, IS GAY that as a proper 'gay' I hug heterosexual friends all the time, and it's not gay at all. It's you know called being 'friendly' if people honestly think to stay straight you have to be as butch, manly and in anyway not thinking of other guys. Then it's probably a cover up act.
^This^ ... though to be honest, I don't have many huggy friends ... I wish more of my friends huggedVakz said:
Fun times though, when one of my huggy friends and I group hugged one of my other friends, essentially pinning him between us. He was standing there going "Let go of me or I'll *threat*". It was fun because he couldn't do anything, and we all knew that on some level he liked it, just not enough to not want to hurt us
Best answer I have ever read. +1 internet'sStaskala said:
Me and my male friends hug all the time...sometimes even grab asses....but thats because its funny. Hell we spank the gay guy's ass really really hard. But thats irrelevant because its funny how high he jumps when he has no idea were about to do it.
It really depends on what type of hug and how long you hugged - would it start to matter.
I quick deep hug or even a longer kind of light patting on the back while laughing is total legit.
But if you did a like a deep embrace hug, a "I missed [hanging out with] you so much" then some men may start to feel uncomfortable with that.
But there are some men, whom are so afraid of any man touch, anything longer then a 4 second hand shake or a slight non hugging pat on the back is too uncomfortable.
I quick deep hug or even a longer kind of light patting on the back while laughing is total legit.
But if you did a like a deep embrace hug, a "I missed [hanging out with] you so much" then some men may start to feel uncomfortable with that.
But there are some men, whom are so afraid of any man touch, anything longer then a 4 second hand shake or a slight non hugging pat on the back is too uncomfortable.
nope not gay. i even "kiss" my dude friends to greet them.(not actual kissing but rubbing ur cheak to hi cheak(while that made it sound more gay)) cultural difference.