Hugging? Totally. Slapping your team mates' asses as a way to say good job? Totally not gay.
Am I sensing a double standard here? XD
Am I sensing a double standard here? XD
Two men hugging means they're gay?
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Geez I thought people were better than this.
My friend sucking my cock or visa versa - is gay. Hot gay anal sex, meaning you can't sit down for the next week due to a sore ass - is gay.
If you're so insecure that you can't even hug a friend or shake their hands because OH GOD NO IT'S GAY, then really you probably are hiding something...
Please remind anyone who ever says two heterosexual men hugging, IS GAY that as a proper 'gay' I hug heterosexual friends all the time, and it's not gay at all. It's you know called being 'friendly' if people honestly think to stay straight you have to be as butch, manly and in anyway not thinking of other guys. Then it's probably a cover up act.
My friend sucking my cock or visa versa - is gay. Hot gay anal sex, meaning you can't sit down for the next week due to a sore ass - is gay.
If you're so insecure that you can't even hug a friend or shake their hands because OH GOD NO IT'S GAY, then really you probably are hiding something...
Please remind anyone who ever says two heterosexual men hugging, IS GAY that as a proper 'gay' I hug heterosexual friends all the time, and it's not gay at all. It's you know called being 'friendly' if people honestly think to stay straight you have to be as butch, manly and in anyway not thinking of other guys. Then it's probably a cover up act.
^This^ ... though to be honest, I don't have many huggy friends ... I wish more of my friends huggedVakz said:
Fun times though, when one of my huggy friends and I group hugged one of my other friends, essentially pinning him between us. He was standing there going "Let go of me or I'll *threat*". It was fun because he couldn't do anything, and we all knew that on some level he liked it, just not enough to not want to hurt us
Best answer I have ever read. +1 internet'sStaskala said:
Me and my male friends hug all the time...sometimes even grab asses....but thats because its funny. Hell we spank the gay guy's ass really really hard. But thats irrelevant because its funny how high he jumps when he has no idea were about to do it.
It really depends on what type of hug and how long you hugged - would it start to matter.
I quick deep hug or even a longer kind of light patting on the back while laughing is total legit.
But if you did a like a deep embrace hug, a "I missed [hanging out with] you so much" then some men may start to feel uncomfortable with that.
But there are some men, whom are so afraid of any man touch, anything longer then a 4 second hand shake or a slight non hugging pat on the back is too uncomfortable.
I quick deep hug or even a longer kind of light patting on the back while laughing is total legit.
But if you did a like a deep embrace hug, a "I missed [hanging out with] you so much" then some men may start to feel uncomfortable with that.
But there are some men, whom are so afraid of any man touch, anything longer then a 4 second hand shake or a slight non hugging pat on the back is too uncomfortable.
nope not gay. i even "kiss" my dude friends to greet them.(not actual kissing but rubbing ur cheak to hi cheak(while that made it sound more gay)) cultural difference.
I hug my guy friends all the time. People who know me know that it's my preferred way to greeting/saying goodbye, so everyone just gets used to it. I'm straight. I just like to hug. Simple as that.
Exactly. And guys hugging became common recently at my school since our class is graduating. Being an international school means people go around the world. This means a load of guys (like close friends) won't see each other. That means the "goodbye" is actually heart felt and emotional since they've known each other for years.AnkaraTheFallen said:
No! It is not gay and the person who said it is an asshole! They're is nothing wrong with two men hugging if they are friends or family.
