FC Groningen said:
Well technically not in real life.
I don't know about you but every friend I've had and every girl that I've dated has had some problems in their lives. First when you get to know people you don't see them. No one wants to share their problems with just anybody. But after you get to know them better you start to see that their lives aren't perfect either. Maybe they have problems with their family, other friends, relatives, school or work. And it's perfectly normal.
Assuming you're a guy, how many girls did you date? How many of those required you to deal with similar problems from the past? I'm well aware that a lot of games and series introduce some sort of problem, but the reason I mentioned it here is because most of the times it feels sort of "forced".
Issues with families are something that I see quite often.
--> Common route. Bright sun, clear sky. Decent girl with some typical Japanese character traits in your average daily life setting (high school or something).
--> "x" route. Dark past, angst, drama etc introduced. Standard development of a lot of VN's.
I don't know, this is something that I quite like. It's the contrast between more serious stuff and lighthearted stuff. First you see that everything seems pretty normal. All is good. But after a while you realize that not everything is well. Then stuff happens and ultimately issue gets resolved in a good way or a bad way.
Teenagers in high school; completely different story. Especially if it's all out of self pity and indeed can be solved by a firm emotional speech of the protagonist.
What VNs have you read where the character was in self pity? Those that I have read had nothing of sorts in them. Maybe I'm just lucky with what I pick up. High school setting is just one of many. It would be dumb to say that all VNs focus on that. And even then, teenagers have problems too and depending on what kind of setting the VN actually has, the problems might be pretty serious.
And hey, this has barely nothing to do with the VNs as a medium anymore. That's more like complaining about the story itself. VNs are a medium which can have many different kinds of stories in them.