Well, actually, "Dat Ass" isn't a big turn-on for me. I like butts, sure, who doesn't? However, most rap video starlets with junk in the trunk produce apathy. I like average to thin to athletic, and don't really pay attention to bust or butt unless it's unusually excellent. Much more of a face and midriff man, personality aside.Qitz said:Because their H-O-T obviously. Also, Dat Ass.
I'm right in the same boat as you though, Minority Woman are hot. Maybe it's because White Woman are more prevalent so Minorities are seen as a rarity, or just the fact that a lot of them don't say Like, Ya know? or Helllooo! all the time.
White women are the vast majority where I live (Utah), minorities are rare, but I think it has more to do with embodying my core philosophies rather than catching the exotic girlfriend. My dating history has included White, Korean, Black, Italian, and Latina. I don't really discriminate based on race, but I just have this odd preference for black women if everything else is equal. It's not even all black women or certain stereotypes of black women. After mingling so much in college, I can't really think of stereotypes I subscribe to, though I am aware of many.
My guess, and this is just a guess, would be because my family is so large (70+ cousins last count) and has been here for so long that when I see most white women around my area, I see features of my family and get that "Incest is definitely NOT wincest" repulsion.
It's something I've pontificated on to lengthy extents, but have yet to form a real answer beyond "The values I often seek in a partner are often portrayed by black women; strong sense of independence, overt strength of character, valuation of intelligence and critical thinking, and survival through adversity." Any woman from any ethnicity can have the traits I enjoy, but from personal experience, I guess I just find them more in black women.
Sorry if I went off on a bit of a spiel, but I've had the conversation before where someone who was obviously fetishizing black women thought I was doing the same. I'm not even saying you do, but it's worth the extra effort to make my comments clear so there isn't any confusion. Liking a woman because you think they fit into a stereotype is about the most damaging thing you can do to a budding relationship, and all to many men (from all ethnicities) succumb to it.