What do you find attractive in the gender(s) you are attracted to?

[FalloutJack]

I'm basically attracted to the usual things that men like about women, but on a more specific note... I like long dark hair, a decent personality, and moxie. You know, a girl who is clever as hell and isn't afraid to use that wit.

That's why I fell in love with black-haired girl who enjoys being sexy.

 

[KhakiHat]

Hips. But God help me if her smile glistens her eyes.

 

[Smooth Operator]

Girlfriends seem like too much high maintenance. Also it's harder to find one who wants to sleep with me. >_>

Hmm, assuming you are a girl that high maintenance should be nothing out of the ordinary.
And if you want a guy without a penis howcome sex is important? I would imagine you avoid it like the devils taint.

See all this woman logic is confusing to us guys, other women would get you right away.

 

[gazumped]

Girlfriends seem like too much high maintenance. Also it's harder to find one who wants to sleep with me. >_>

Hmm, assuming you are a girl that high maintenance should be nothing out of the ordinary.
And if you want a guy without a penis howcome sex is important? I would imagine you avoid it like the devils taint.

See all this woman logic is confusing to us guys, other women would get you right away.

Haha, I've never met a girl who gets it, they just think I'm weird. XD I hate confrontation and effort so wouldn't want a high maintenance partner (and also as a result am low maintenance/eager to please). And sex is, unfortunately, desired by most people as a requirement for companionship. I actually just meant it's harder to find a girl who'd be willing to date me, but wording it that way makes it sound like I'm a loser rather than just an owner of the wrong genitalia.

 

[sumanoskae]

Physically, It'd be simpler to make a list of things that I don't find attractive. I don't really care about hands and feet, bar some kind of extreme(Freakishly large or small, really dirty, or a really bad scar), the same goes for ears, noses and belly buttons. Other then that, tits, ass, legs, eyes, lips, figure, hair, skin texture, they all get to me.

In terms of personality... well I'd like to meet a woman who's really smart and loving(Who the hell doesn't?), honest with herself, down to earth and able to keep things in perspective, above all that stereotypical crap, and who's really comfortable with her sexuality.

Realistically I'd just like a girlfriend who understands me and doesn't make me feel alone, people have an odd way of doing that.

 

[mandaforever]

I'm looking for a Brunette that likes games, and is actually smart.
This is going to be a hard find.

me? haha!

 

[mandaforever]

I'm looking for a Brunette that likes games, and is actually smart.
This is going to be a hard find.

me? haha!

although "smart" might not be applicable in all situations

 

[mandaforever]

well Im a girl who loves video games and I want a guy who loves them just like me. It's hard to find a guy who likes video games and is attractive and not socially retarded, however.

Physically, I love tall guys, and a little bit of beard is a plus. I love guys with pretty eyes, and dimples are awesome to me, I don't know why. But a gamer guy with dimples and a good head on his shoulders=yes.

 

[masticina]

Their personality, you could marry the most beautiful bimbo and have a good looking trophy wife but such isn't worth it.

Finding one who's candle burns with the fire in such a brightness that it pours out the stars, their scent, their eyes.

It helps if they look healthy I agree..

And really I look under the skin, bones, blood.. like a delicious burger meal packed in. Mmm I shouldn't say such to much I guess people might think I am crazy

 

[SUPA FRANKY]

Boobs, Bo0obhs, boobs, and did I mention boobs?

Physical: Curves, a decent rack, nice butt and all that jazz.

Internal: A girl who is comfortable with herself, a geek like me, A girl who doesn't dismiss things she doesn't understand, respect others opinions, and doesn't use her gender to get make ends meet.

 

[Fbuh]

Well, I find a very broad spectrum attractive. I'm an ass man, so I like cute firm butts, but I also like full round ones as well.

I also like short hair and a lot of punk styles. I think it's because it's different.

 

[Gunjester]

Hair, face and curves, not butt and breasts I mean the side curves and overall look...
though butt and breasts are still at least likable. To tell the truth though medium size is my favorite.

 

[CarlMin]

Fur, I guess

 

[Durgiun]

A nice ass, a good pair of tits, and a love for video games/comics/movies. And something involving a personality or whatever.

 

[TheAceTheOne]

On I find beauty a few way:
...
- I need her to have a nice smile and beautiful eyes
- intellect
- good conversation on a variety of subjects, we need to be able to talk about the Simpsons or Family Guy one minute and the socioeconomic implications of strife in the middle east due to not only oil based issues but historical conflicts that date back to the origins of non Mayan and non Mycenaean civilizations (to give and example).
- I need to like her laugh
- Personality
- heart and compassion
- values
- honesty
- and we naturally compliment each other in every way
- and someone that is not only a lover but a best friend...

Sounds like my girlfriend right now :3

I agree with your list. I'm not even gonna be a wiseass since my day's kicked ass entirely.

I left off the physical attractiveness because I have my own opinion on that. My gal is thin, kind of short compared to me, and small in some areas (waist, chest). I love that and I love her.

More on topic: Thin gal, gorgeous, soulful eyes, beautiful hair that has the shine of the sun (although not necessarily any specific color), soft skin, a beautiful smile, a gentle touch, loving mouth, and a wonderful personality.

If my girlfriend happens to read this, I love youuuu~

 

[irtaco]

For me,
Guys- Nice tight butt and alot of facial hair.
Girls- Nice round butt.
Both- Long hair. I loves it.
I'm simple like that.

 

[mandaforever]

A guy who can talk about video games for hours, and not find it strange or boring, just to add

 

[kickassfrog]

The vagina. They absolutely must have one. That's the one point I refuse to compromise on.

 

[X123Lewis123X]

i have a thing for tummies, i think it might be because its inbetween tits and fandango but still, my girlfriend doesnt like her stomach but i love it