i'm sure im not the first to say this, but im losing interest and wanna say it before i close down the browser and going to bed: You're coming across very negatively. I'll take it you're not looking to make friends, so i won't whine about it, but you really should try to be a little bit openminded. You think you have seen and experienced it all just because you go to bars? My hairy arse you have. And thats period.
To the topic at hand, though. A LOT of people can relate to insecure characters. Sure they might not always be the most likeable or even the most powerful, but they are often the most human. As to being insecure, or, god forbid, emo (why emo anyway? because they don't puke rainbows and shit violets? because they, god forbid, show emotions other then rage?), you are 100% right. These are NOT attractive traits in any person, and it is very likely only few women will go for a man who is emotionally weaker then they themselves are. That does not mean that it doesn't happen, and looking at humanity: it's often the anti-social geeks who succeed in life with a good wife and job, where it's the butch drunks who end up as being worse drunks then they already were.
However, and here is the main point of this much-longer-then-intended-rant, it is very rare...possibly non-existent, even...for girls to like main characters who are like this. over the course of the game, said main characters gain power, experience and most of all: self confidence. Cloud (ff7) might be a lone wolf who is afraid to get close to people because he might get hurt, at the start of ff7, and squall isn't much different from that in ff8 either, but at the end of their respective games they are brimming with confidence, they are stronger and know it.
As for leadership qualities, it's more story related then character related here. I'll refer to cloud and squall again because im too tired, and most of all lazy, to think of any others right now: Cloud is an ex-SOLDIER, therefore he knows stuff about the enemy. He is also always calm and looks confident, even if he doesn't feel that way. He might not be able to open up much, but lets face it: next to no guys like to talk, let alone about their emotions. Squall isn't much different here. I do believe, however, that charm factors in. The characters are charming, relateable, and this is the same way for the other characters: they recognise themselves in our leading char, they have faith that he who seems to be at the center of all the bad guys' attentions will get us out of it. In the case of actual leader-like types like cid in several FFs, or auron in FFx, it is because they either have been chosen to lead before the games story, and sucked at it due to themselves or circumstances, or because they want to give a new generation a chance (auron specificly).
oh and finally: this is the internet, you have to word your questions and statements VERY exactly so you don't insult anybody and nobody will missunderstand you in any way. It is very easy to get it wrong when not talking with actual voices, and if people seem to not get the gist of what you're getting at (which may be the case for me aswell, ofcourse), then you should realise you haven't made your statement clearly enough and you may want to consider rewording it
To the topic at hand, though. A LOT of people can relate to insecure characters. Sure they might not always be the most likeable or even the most powerful, but they are often the most human. As to being insecure, or, god forbid, emo (why emo anyway? because they don't puke rainbows and shit violets? because they, god forbid, show emotions other then rage?), you are 100% right. These are NOT attractive traits in any person, and it is very likely only few women will go for a man who is emotionally weaker then they themselves are. That does not mean that it doesn't happen, and looking at humanity: it's often the anti-social geeks who succeed in life with a good wife and job, where it's the butch drunks who end up as being worse drunks then they already were.
However, and here is the main point of this much-longer-then-intended-rant, it is very rare...possibly non-existent, even...for girls to like main characters who are like this. over the course of the game, said main characters gain power, experience and most of all: self confidence. Cloud (ff7) might be a lone wolf who is afraid to get close to people because he might get hurt, at the start of ff7, and squall isn't much different from that in ff8 either, but at the end of their respective games they are brimming with confidence, they are stronger and know it.
As for leadership qualities, it's more story related then character related here. I'll refer to cloud and squall again because im too tired, and most of all lazy, to think of any others right now: Cloud is an ex-SOLDIER, therefore he knows stuff about the enemy. He is also always calm and looks confident, even if he doesn't feel that way. He might not be able to open up much, but lets face it: next to no guys like to talk, let alone about their emotions. Squall isn't much different here. I do believe, however, that charm factors in. The characters are charming, relateable, and this is the same way for the other characters: they recognise themselves in our leading char, they have faith that he who seems to be at the center of all the bad guys' attentions will get us out of it. In the case of actual leader-like types like cid in several FFs, or auron in FFx, it is because they either have been chosen to lead before the games story, and sucked at it due to themselves or circumstances, or because they want to give a new generation a chance (auron specificly).
oh and finally: this is the internet, you have to word your questions and statements VERY exactly so you don't insult anybody and nobody will missunderstand you in any way. It is very easy to get it wrong when not talking with actual voices, and if people seem to not get the gist of what you're getting at (which may be the case for me aswell, ofcourse), then you should realise you haven't made your statement clearly enough and you may want to consider rewording it