Aramis Night said:
I love facts and statistics and i do happen to be a white male(through no fault of my own, i assure you). This combination of properties i possess clearly puts me in the comic creators definition of the WMDF. I take no pride in this but i also find it difficult to feel too much shame about it which is generally how i feel about race as well despite clearly being pegged as a racist here. I've never understood the concept of racial pride. How can i take credit for accomplishments i have had no hand in?
I do not expect other people to answer for things they have not themselves done or expressed but it seems obvious that as a white male, i cannot be expected to receive the same treatment from others. By virtue of my skin tone/gender i am expected to not protest when i am treated poorly or mischaracterized or else i am shamed by those around me because somewhere someone has been mistreated worse than me and for possibly worse reasons. I do not deny the reality that yes, others have been treated worse than me. A trip to a graveyard will confirm that. And by such an extreme metric, no one has a right to complain as long as they still live.
Have we grown so lacking in empathy that we have to ration it out only to certain groups and not to others? And if so shouldn't the metric be based on suffering or injustice rather than demographic?
The notion of privilege gets thrown around a lot and if it's advocates are to be believed, i am exceedingly well endowed with it. Yet somehow through no irresponsibility of my own, i have been homeless, i have been without employment/income(never been fired), i have been raped/drugged(how i lost my virginity), i have been shot at(drive by), I have had my home destroyed by gang members, my father died last year of a drug overdose, i've been betrayed by numerous supposed best friends and girlfriends, i've been locked up(violated a weapons law while homeless for carrying something i didn't know was illegal to protect myself with), and i have been disowned by all sides of my family because they all think i'm some kind of satanist(spoiler: I'm not).
I don't bring any of that up for the sake of a pity party. My suffering isn't special. But it does exist. To be informed that i have no right to my grief because of aspects of myself i had no choice in, Also denies me my right to empathise with others who have also experienced suffering and grief whether they share my gender/skin tone or not. And this is the objection i have with the subtext that this comic promotes.
/STANDING OVATION
You've just said something I've been wanting to put into words all this time. Thanks!
WARNING: LONG POST INCOMING
BTW, to those of you who say that "If you're offended by this comic, YOU are the problem":
I'll explain why I find this comic in very poor taste.
First of all, I'll say that I totally agree with the point you guys are trying to get across: That there's an awful disproportion of representation of demographics in gaming, in other words, it's pure straight white males as far as the eye can see, and yes, it IS a problem if your goal is inclusion (mine is).
I also agree that, if from the get go, you can easily make a protagonist female/black/gay/etc.. DO IT. You'll be making gaming (and minority gamers) a great service. Hell, even I get tired of playing as white dudes all the time.
So why, then, do I feel.. hmm no, offended is a strong word.. umm.. put off by this comic?
Well, guys, some of the stereotypes you used are hurtful.
Let's analyse who make up the White Guy Defense Force:
This three individuals are very likely nerds and/or gamers, since this issue is mainly a gaming thing.
The first one is a "beta" overweight male brony with a victim complex. From what I understand, beta means socially awkward loser who doesn't have friends or get girls, and probably resents society ("thanks Obama") because of that.
The second, from what I get (I may be wrong) is a stereotypical XBox Live angry alpha "bro" douchebag that can't go five seconds without throwing a racist/homophobic/misogynist slut. Regrettably gamers now understand this to be 99% of the "modern shooter" fanbase, when actually I think it's just a very vocal minority.
The third is the now (in)famous "Fedora Atheist", which is the stereotype of an obnoxious, arrogant, socially awkward (again), physically unattractive (not always), religiously intolerant, militant atheist with a pseudo-intellectual superiority complex.
Many of those caricatures hit very close to home for me.
I am a white male. I am a little overweight. I am a nerd. I am a gamer. I am socially awkward, which means my IRL friends list is very very short, and I have only had one girlfriend in my entire life, and it didn't last long. I wear glasses (like most Fedora Atheists for some reason). Speaking of which, I am an atheist. I've never worn a fedora, though.
I am NOT religiously intolerant (I'm OK with people believing in ghosts, as long as they don't force their BS into the rest of society through politics, education, the legal system or bullying/intimidation). I don't have a victim complex or a superiority complex (that I know of). Nobody has ever told me that I'm obnoxious or arrogant (quite the contrary). I never use racist/sexist/homophobic slurs (except in jokes in which I make fun of the people that use them). I don't resent society for my condition (It's nobody's fault that I am what I am. People who blame society just want to avoid taking responsability for their own lives).
My point is, I've been bullied since elementary school all the way 'till graduation. Bullied for having these traits that this comics make fun of. I don't want to add "racist/misogynist/homophobic" to the list of prejudices against me just because I share some physical and demographical traits with the WGDF douchebags.
No, I'm not comparing my being bullied in school to the actual sh!t minorities had (and sometimes still have) to go through in their lives. I'm just saying that your problems being greater than mine doesn't make my problems non-existant (fallacy of relative privation).
My point is, authors of Critical Miss,
don't piss off your allies.
Oh, and I almost forgot the probably biggest offender: ZIMMERMAN.
I'll admit I don't know much about the Zimmerman case, not being American myself. But if the man was found not-guilty by a jury of his peers in a fair trial, you should respect that veredict, whether you agree with it or not. The justice system of most democracies is based on the principle of "innocent until proven guilty". Using the media to perpetuate the notion that the man is guilty (and tarnishing his reputation in the process) is nothing less than
libel.
OK, I'm done.
I just wanted to say that, boy it was a long post. I wish the authors of this comic read this post, even if they don't respond. But I'm afraid it'll be ignored. Please tell me what you think about it. Maybe I'm taking this too personal, I don't know, I just posted what I felt, without filters..
Now you can all go back to argue about Zimmerman vs Trayvon.