Silverblade said:
My question is, are you guys saying that if I like women who have large breasts and/or are dress as sexy nuns that I am a bad person?
Its that I do like women with the sort of figure you see in Dragon Crown or Hitman: Absolution, and the feeling I get from these flame wars is that there are a bunch of people out there saying that because I like women with big breasts, or women dressed in sexy outfits that I am bad/evil/immoral. The idea that someone would label me as a bad person just because I have a certain sexual preference makes me angry.
It's just your body reacting to sexual stimuli.
It's biology.
I would even say that the people suppressing their sexuality out of some misguided sense of morality are only creating problems for themselves because sexuality doesn't just go away if you tell it to. They will always have this voice at the back of their heads saying things like: "Look at her, you want her, don't you?", causing an internal conflict, which will ultimately result in mental damage (and mental damage does lead to physical damage, the brain does affect the rest of the body because it is responsible for the performance of the rest of the body so if it will be in bad shape, so will the body).
As for this shaming of other people for expressing their sexuality, I blame religion for the majority of it (I know, not the most original thing to say but it's true).
The fact is, Abrahamic religion ruined sexuality. Before that, even if you look at Greek/Roman mythology, there were gods specifically responsible for sex and orgies. However, after the Roman empire became Christian, everything went to shit. Sexuality is deliberately shamed in the Bible to make the people feel guilty about it and seek forgiveness, which of course can only be achieved by being obedient to god, represented on Earth by "men of god" (clever little scheme, if I may add).
Things are getting better now that you can actually say "fuck Jahwe and Jesus and the Holy Ghost" and not get killed, but the whole "sex is shameful" mentality is still there. It's ingrained in Western culture because of 1,5 millenium of brainwashing.
Also, don't buy into this "they're nuns, women of god so you can't lust over them" crap.
They're women, they're sexy, your body will react, regardless of what society tells you.
If you're not Christian, you can look and it's just women in sexy costumes, and if you are Christian, those are still women in sexy costumes, not real nuns. Nuns aren't even part of real Christianity (neither are priests and churches for that matter, but that's another topic).
I know this might be incoherent but I hope you get what I'm saying.
The point is, don't care about what other people say about your sexuality.
If anything, it says more about them than it does about you.