Well, there are nonbinary trans as well. I thiiiiink (i am not really sure, shit is komplex) But neutrois or agender would be best for me. I´d love to loose my breast, they are annoying and, eh, just not really a part of me (well not more than my fingernails, but more annoying) so to have an androgynous body.
I can live with being seen/identified as female, but its okay because.. its not me. its hard to explain.
But being trans doesnt mean to become a stereotype. Some might have to do with the hoops you have to jump to get therapy/stuff by insurance (here in germany you would to need to live 1 year presenting the gender you feel you are- but that assumes that societys idea of that gender expression is the right/correct way. (but if you dont perform good enough, you might not get the necessary diagnosis..)
But I am pretty sure that there are tomboy transwomen or rather femme-y transguys. There is a lot of diversity. Dont let anybody devalue your expression or identity only because it doenst fit in societys boxes..(which we tend to internalize, so its easy to just say : I dont fit, something is wrong with me or the boxes- but well, boxes, labels are just approximations, so maybe you might need to build your own box)
I´d ask myself whether abomination is a white cis heterosexual male..Just because race, gender or else are words usually for privileged people. The rest knows that these are words that describa very real negative influence on their lives, which is invisible for people who dont have to deal with shit because they are "the normal" Its like.. well, the way usually white people talk about colourblindness-because for Black people there is none- see like last 1/2 year in media
I can live with being seen/identified as female, but its okay because.. its not me. its hard to explain.
But being trans doesnt mean to become a stereotype. Some might have to do with the hoops you have to jump to get therapy/stuff by insurance (here in germany you would to need to live 1 year presenting the gender you feel you are- but that assumes that societys idea of that gender expression is the right/correct way. (but if you dont perform good enough, you might not get the necessary diagnosis..)
But I am pretty sure that there are tomboy transwomen or rather femme-y transguys. There is a lot of diversity. Dont let anybody devalue your expression or identity only because it doenst fit in societys boxes..(which we tend to internalize, so its easy to just say : I dont fit, something is wrong with me or the boxes- but well, boxes, labels are just approximations, so maybe you might need to build your own box)
I´d ask myself whether abomination is a white cis heterosexual male..Just because race, gender or else are words usually for privileged people. The rest knows that these are words that describa very real negative influence on their lives, which is invisible for people who dont have to deal with shit because they are "the normal" Its like.. well, the way usually white people talk about colourblindness-because for Black people there is none- see like last 1/2 year in media