Your opinion or thought on Love?

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spartan231490

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Perhaps you should rephrase the OP to "Romantic love," it's pretty hard not to believe in love if you have family and friends. Though I also believe in romantic love. Kinda. Somedays. It's getting hard to actually, but the cynicism hasn't completely conquered my romantic heart yet.
 

Ieyke

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shrekfan246 said:
It's an adapted (and abridged) story based around a girl that I met six and a half years ago, and our subsequent relationship together.
Sounds not unlike my own (also massively abridged) story.
 

Piorn

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Love is just something that happens.
It's like a fart. If you have to force it, it's propably shit.
 

afroebob

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This is basically how I feel about it because its pretty much spot on.
 

Tom_green_day

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I believe it's something made up to give people an excuse to do things, but that's probably just be being cynical.
 

Kirke

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Do I believe in Love? I believe he's vicious, at times, and lovely (sometimes.) And he is my little brother. So yes, I believe in Love. I love Love, as a matter of fact.
 

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I don't believe in the concept of True Love, love at first sight, or any of this happily ever after stuff. If there was 'someone for everyone' a) why are so many people alone and b) ever noticed that people who claim to have 'found their soulmate' are almost always geographically close to and just happen to find one another? It's such a common thing, it just seems a little too convenient to me.

What I do believe in is evolution, and with evolution, comes instincts. I therefore believe in attraction. I believe that people place value on another person because of these feelings of attraction, and the fear of losing that person if the attraction fades is a very real emotion. The mutual sharing of oneself is a form of symbiosis; two people choosing to cohabit/copulate for the mutual benefit of mood and contentment the other provides. The word 'Love' is overused, and misused, but I believe that the aforementioned instincts can qualify as love, since love is a stong and powerful liking of something, and romantic love is very much a strong liking of the other person because of how they treat us, how they make us feel, and the things they let us do with/to them. Love is an instinctive attraction that we wish to nurture and maintain for instinctively selfish reasons.
 

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I believe in love, but not the kind where it is portrayed as being deeply infatuated with the partner for all of eternity without burning out. It's just a desire/attraction(non-sexual) to other people i.e., you love your friends, your parents, your family and so on. When you fall romantically in love with someone, I find that it is really just infatuation, and when that fades, whatever kind of relationship you have built up with them to that point determines how things go from there. I think that diametrically opposed people can become infatuated with each other, be lovey-dovey for a year or so, and then when they are no longer infatuated, realize that they don't really like each other as much as they thought they did, and break up. I also think that two like-minded people (have similar interests or though processes/compliment each other well) can become infatuated with each other, and when they are no longer infatuated with each other, realize that things still work regardless of infatuation and from there they may decide to continue to be together since they still appreciate each other's company.

That's my opinion on the matter anyways.
 

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I believe in it despite I have not experience it yet (love as in having a girlfriend) eventhought my mates think I'm btter off that way (needless to say they had experience the bad side of it).
 

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shrekfan246 said:
Brandon237 said:
shrekfan246 said:
Do I believe in love?


There was a boy, no older than most when they first find interest in the opposite sex.

He spent most of his days by himself. Part of it was by choice. Part of it wasn't.

There was a girl, a bit younger than the boy.

She was a troubled spirit, free and yet simultaneously chained down, unable to overcome the hardships she faced by herself.

The two met one day.

No words were exchanged, at first. Just a locking of their eyes, and two small, shy smiles.

The pair found common ground, and began spending their time together, more and more each day as time passed.

As the days turned to months, it seemed like they were inseparable. Nothing would come between them, as long as they had each other.

And then the day came.

The girl's family moved away. She had to go with them.

It hit the boy like a sidewinder, revealed out of the blue. He couldn't understand it. Why did she need to leave?

The days turned bleak, after that. Darkness seemed a permanent fixture in the boy's mind, and his schoolmates noted that he seemed increasingly irritable and distracted.

He needed an outlet. Something to pour his heart and soul into now. He settled on a combination of music and literature, hoping it would fill the void left behind by her absence.

It did, for a time.

As the months passed, he could feel her sliding further into the back of his mind.

But fate was not so kind.

Two summers after she had left, the girl reappeared in the boy's life.

He was confused, understandably. When asked about her return, the girl replied that she wanted to see him again. The boy... could scarcely believe his ears. In a single instant, all of his thoughts, feelings, memories of her, came crashing back into his head. As much as he wanted to tell her that he didn't feel the same way... he couldn't formulate the words.

And so they spent the summer together, knowing that it would end in heartbreak and disappointment when the girl needed to leave again at the end of the summer. Despite that, the boy would recall that summer as being the best few months of his high school years.

As his final year of high school began, the boy found solace in the fond memories he would always have of his time with the girl. He was amicable, jovial even, a rock for his friends in their times of need. But he always knew, somewhere deep in his mind, that he would never forget the girl.

Months passed. The boy's family began falling apart. He graduated, but was left aimless by the situation an ailing father and an absent mother presented him with. He wanted a direction. He needed something, or someone, to guide him.

And so he went to the girl.

She had never forgotten him. She had always been there for him.

I'm not sure whether that answers your question or not, to be honest. But I hope it does.
That... gave me chills. Thank-you for that :)
I can take some haphazard guesses (two admittedly), but how does the story fit into your life?
It's an adapted (and abridged) story based around a girl that I met six and a half years ago, and our subsequent relationship together.
Aah, well that was very well told and as said, it gave me chills, so well done :D Sounds like a very happy story indeed :)
 

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I don't believe in love. I think it's one of those idealistic imaginary concepts like magic or zombies: we all know what it is, and we all spend hours and hours talking about it, but it's not something we can actually achieve. The popular conception of love is an unreachable utopia.
 

John Nordstrom

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Love?

IT'S A WAAAAAAY OF FEEEELIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIN'


But yeah, the above song pretty much sums it up. It can be great and all, but most of the time these days, it's a means of control.
 

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Love 2D is an interesting engine. I admire it's existence, however LUA's most useful applications seem a little more broad.
 

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N3squ1ck said:
I believe in love, I experienced it, it was nice, but it is nasty when the love is not there anymore. Also it left me searching to find it again in this world. So far, no luck. But I know it is out there somewhere.
Not much more I can add.
EXACT
SAME
EXPERIENCE
 

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Rose and Thorn said:
Do you believe in love?

Whether or not you can describe it, I am curious to know what everyone who answers opinion or thought on love is. What is love to you? What ISN'T love to you?

Get technical, stay simple. Be detailed, or answer vaguely. Give me your honest feelings on this one word, and what it means to you.
Nope or to say at least I haven't experienced it, and untill than I'd say it's no different than eating large quantities of chocolate

tricky-crazy said:
I believe in love as I was born because of it. My parents are still together after 26 years of marriage. :)
My parents have been married for that long to, but it ain't love keeping them together. I'm pretty sure it's spite or to see which one will die first at this point. In all seriousness they should of got divorced when I was a kid, they did more damage staying together than splitting up. Probably why I'm still single.
 

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Well, I love my parents and most of my family. I love my closest friends. I love my Xbox and my PC. I would definitely die or take serious harm for all of them and always try to take care of them.

That's the only experience I have on the matter.
 

aXFireXHeartXa

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disgruntledgamer said:
My parents have been married for that long to, but it ain't love keeping them together. I'm pretty sure it's spite or to see which one will die first at this point. In all seriousness they should of got divorced when I was a kid, they did more damage staying together than splitting up. Probably why I'm still single.
I know how that is. If my parents had gotten divorced a long time ago there would have been a lot less arguing and hate. I'm probably still single because somewhere in my mind all I've gotten from my parents is "relationships are bad".
 

Tsun Tzu

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I'm not sure I've ever experienced it myself and I can never be certain that anyone who's ever claimed to love me does in a way I would find meaningful.

Human condition and all that.

I would like to believe I'll fall in love some day, but I have severe doubts. In the words of Start Trouble's song "Chemical"...

Love is a chemical
Straight from your genitals
Never is spiritual
Never unconditional
Love is a chemical
Nature is radical
Never is spiritual
It's mathematical
and everything you've ever known today
Is all the world can give you
Don't believe in love or hate
It's only a chemical