You speak of the ability for a black person to be able to speak for himself and him alone is an ability that we all the time. It isn't, due to how the majority perceives us.Agema said:If we are going to hold an individual to represent a wider group, we can also look at it from the point of view that forgiveness can signal that it's not necessarily some mindless vendetta against cops when they shoot people they shouldn't.ObsidianJones said:I saw a youtube video about Botham's brother, Brandt, and how he forgave Amber and hugged her [https://www.cnn.com/2019/10/02/us/botham-jean-brother-amber-guyger-hug/index.html].
I have a problem with him doing it. And that's my biggest problem of all. That I have any issues of him forgiving.
More simply, he has to be allowed to speak for himself; as I am aware he is just a person who has never asked to represent anyone else and that needs to be respected.
When innocent and/or unarmed men are shot in droves, people go to the police's aid by stating "It's a hard job, just look at Chicago".
As if the violence of Chicago justifies innocent and/or unarmed people's death. But to many it does. Because "that's how those people are, you can't be too careful".
Stating how things should be doesn't speak of how the world is. Black people are tired of being seen as a Monolith [https://www.google.com/search?client=avast&sxsrf=ACYBGNRJFASGkqdJtbB-Y318ymBJKtb_xQ%3A1570113230758&ei=zgaWXfD5LcKV_Qa5tqnQAQ&q=black+people+monolith&oq=black+people+monolith&gs_l=psy-ab.3...19822.21364..21661...0.0..0.139.762.0j6......0....1..gws-wiz.y8bzHdS6ZUQ&ved=0ahUKEwjwmIHLp4DlAhXCSt8KHTlbChoQ4dUDCAs&uact=5], but we are. We are asked to sweep our feelings under the rug far too often.
I already stated that as an individual I am in awe of what he can do. I respect that aspect of it. but with Black Culture, how we are perceived is all about precedents. And while I admire the hell out of Brandt for being able to do what he did, I as a black person always have to be aware of what precedents are being set by the current headliner's actions.