With the recent Zoe everything going on I realize just how much of the topic is about what a "lying cheating slut" she is.after reading the full description of pretty much every detail of the end of their relationship and their break up online, I got to thinking about myself and other people's views on cheating. Pretty much everything Zoe did reminded me of my bipolar ex boyfriend: the cheating the lying and be completely ridiculous statements that you'd have to be an idiot to believe, but I still somehow believed.
Being cheated on sucks. It especially sucks when it's your first love, and it's even worse if you know all the details. Here are some ridiculous lies my boyfriend told me
-one of his friends thought it would be funny to give him hickeys all over his body
- he has no idea why this other girl would say that he's her boyfriend
- we don't need to use condoms, because he's not cheating (that seems to be pretty popular)
I can't think of any others right now. Most of this took place almost a decade ago. Despite the fact that the thought of him with anyone else made me physically ill the flagrant lying to my face bothered me more than anything else.
my questions to you all,
Why stay in a relationship when you know someone is cheating?
Why do you have to suspend all reason in order to stay in the relationship?
If you break up because your significant other cheated on you is it ok to post every detail on the internet for all to see, including names?
These are tough questions and even I don't think I have my own answers, but it would be interesting to see if there are common patterns. Feel free to share your own completely ridiculous lies that you believed from a cheater.
Being cheated on sucks. It especially sucks when it's your first love, and it's even worse if you know all the details. Here are some ridiculous lies my boyfriend told me
-one of his friends thought it would be funny to give him hickeys all over his body
- he has no idea why this other girl would say that he's her boyfriend
- we don't need to use condoms, because he's not cheating (that seems to be pretty popular)
I can't think of any others right now. Most of this took place almost a decade ago. Despite the fact that the thought of him with anyone else made me physically ill the flagrant lying to my face bothered me more than anything else.
my questions to you all,
Why stay in a relationship when you know someone is cheating?
Why do you have to suspend all reason in order to stay in the relationship?
If you break up because your significant other cheated on you is it ok to post every detail on the internet for all to see, including names?
These are tough questions and even I don't think I have my own answers, but it would be interesting to see if there are common patterns. Feel free to share your own completely ridiculous lies that you believed from a cheater.