Could you be attracted to a bisexual?

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Fdzzaigl

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It's not like "I'm a frekking bisexual yo!", would be written all over their faces. So yeah.

And even if it were, wouldn't make much of a difference for me. As far as steady relationships would go, I guess the same rules as the ones with another heterosexual would apply :p
 

Blunderboy

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The girl I'm seeing at the moment is bi. I'm fine with it.
The only problem is that she's not really looking for anything committed right now, but that's not anything to do with her sexuality.
 

Not Lord Atkin

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I used to like this girl who was bisexual. when she told me that, the first thought that popped into my head was: "sweet" followed by "we could totally get one of her friends to join in". Sadly, that didn't work out (she was also kind of psychotic). My current girlfriend is just about as straight as they get.

In all seriousness though, I wouldn't mind, it could actually be pretty interesting. I would probably be worried about her deciding she wants something different for a change and leaving me over it, then again, I try not to be paranoid when it comes to relationships anymore (making every single girl I've ever been with prove that they weren't transsexual men did not make me very popular with the ladies).
 

piinyouri

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If I was attracted to them, it would be for another reason besides the fact that they are bisexual.
 

babinro

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CrimsonBlaze said:
I would say yes.

So long as they are attracted to me and are interested in pursuing a relationship, why should it matter if they are attracted to the same sex?
My thoughts exactly.

I wouldn't let her past relationships with males or females bother me any more than I would with a straight woman's history.
It's a non-issue.
 

Mr F.

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My ex fiance was Bisexual. Most of the partners I have had since have been bisexual. Hell, I am pretty sure only my last partner was not bisexual. I am bisexual. It is not down to a preference to bisexuals (Quite the reverse, I am paranoid and incredibly insecure, not the most mentally stable individual), it is just down to not being able to help who you fall in love with (And falling in love way too easily).

Although I have had female friends who say they do not like the idea of me dating dudes. But that is life. I do not really care much about the matter. Each to their own. strangely, some aspects of homophobia do not bother me in the slightest. I mean, I have a male friend who would never say a bad thing about gay guys. He is one of my oldest friend. But he cannot really accept that I am bisexual, he doesn't ever want to consider it. The idea of two dudes going at it repulses him, genuinely. Its not that he thinks it is wrong, he just hates the idea. So... Theres that (And its off topic, I know.)

*reads up*

Yeah, the idea within the LGBTQ community that us "B's" are halfway out the closet and stuff is really annoying. I mean, I used to be a promiscuous little shit, but lots of us were when we were younger. But again, I understand it. I get strait privilege because most people have no idea whatsoever. I am pretty good at hiding it (Had to for a very long time) plus I am terrified of getting involved with a dude thanks to earlier stuff.
 

thethird0611

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Straight white guy reporting in, and honestly, I would probably say that I dont believe I could. Heck, im not even turned on by the thought of two women having sex. Stepping away from the whole 'Not ok with homosexuality' thing, I think I would just feel kinda off about dating a gal who is bisexual. Just the thought of her thinking 'Oh, im just not as happy with a man as I would with a woman', or just thinking that she could have the same thoughts about a woman's looks like I could say to a guy and he would understand, just kinda seems off.

So really, nothing that would 100% happen, but all those little thoughts that 'could' happen, just doesnt sit well enough with me.
 

waj9876

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It would be incredibly hypocritical of me if I were to say not, as I myself am pansexual. Which is like being bisexual, only I also like people who used to be one gender, and became another. Also hermaphrodites.
 

thethird0611

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SpunkeyMonkey said:
Mr F. said:
thethird0611 said:
Both great, honest posts that just show "each to their own", and that in life everyone has to do their own thing.

Listen to you heart/instinct/gut/whatever and that's where the truth lies IMO. The people who end up unhappy are those who live their lives by other people's judgements and interpretation of things.
You know, my night has been really 'eh' because of lack of sleep, but I just got the biggest smile to your post. Very optimistic, accepting, and caring.

So thank you SpunkeyMonkey... and that is a really hard sentence to say with a straight face xD
 

Jandau

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No, I would not have a problem with that. In fact, I have no problems if my girlfriend fools around a bit with other girls, as long as it doesn't negatively affect me.
 

Combustion Kevin

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dated one for a while, until she realised I realised she wasn't emotionaly invested and conciously trying to be distant to the whole affair.

but that was a personal thing, bisexuality doesn't really matter to me, anyway, in fact given my stubborness, I might even ask a lesbian out if I liked em enough. ^^'
 

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Headdrivehardscrew said:
I know quite a number of gay and bisexual men. Those living in a relationship model and sex life I can somewhat relate to are TWO, well, FOUR if I add their significant others into the mix. All the others are either...
Well then you've had a very poor experience. And your personal anecdotal does not make for the majority of homosexuals or bisexuals.
 

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Seeing as I am dating someone who is bisexual, I say that I'm attracted to him like I am to any other guy. I found his personality to be something I liked and he could get me to laugh easily; a trait I always like in a person.

When he said he was bisexual, I joked that we could check out guys together, but otherwise; I just didn't care. What he likes is up to him, and if I'm a part of what he likes, that is A OKAY in my book. :)

A bisexual person is just like any other person who feels sexual attraction to anyone else. It's not as if bisexual humans are slobbering sexual maniacs. They are just more open to other people to being attracted to.
 

Longstreet

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Sure,

Not only doesn't it really matter at all (the whole attracked to her nother sexuality), since i like girls, that gives some extra possibilities.

You can finally look at other girls while walking down the street without her protesting, because she would probably be looking too.
 

lettucethesallad

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I wouldn't care at all. I wonder about the people who'd feel threatened by it though. Are they equally threatened by someone straight? Talk about insecurity issues.
 

Angie7F

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My close friend is a bi transgender.
I dont mind at all and also would not mind dating one.
 

Phasmal

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Well duh.
It's easy to be attracted to anyone, being bi doesn't make you unattractive.
As to whether I would date a bi guy, my ex was. It was never really an issue, but he never really talked about it either.
 

DelphiSantano

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Yeah, no reason why it would be a problem.
If anything it'd give some common ground to start with.
It wouldn't have any bearing on a decision anyway, that'd come down entirely to personality and actual attraction.