EstrogenicMuscle said:
Headdrivehardscrew said:
In a relationship or married? Hell no.
Why? Do you think there is any more change that they would cheat?
There isn't. Heterosexuals and homosexuals are equally as likely to cheat as bisexuals.
Being bisexual does not mean having relaxed morals.
I know quite a number of gay and bisexual men. Those living in a relationship model and sex life I can somewhat relate to are TWO, well, FOUR if I add their significant others into the mix. All the others are either cockring-wearing ever-hard, ever-humping poof fairies living in random sauna sex wonderland or they're meanwhile full time drug addicts and/or deranged-level crazy, either on heavy medication or living the dream of dedicating themselves to fight society, the power, the man, capitalism and whatever fancy windmill du jour needs poking - And that's all with or without the freebie HIV they picked up during one of their sex, booze and/or drug binges. Some of those used to be handsome, very intelligent, charming. I've seen enough of that and I am not willing to put up with any glamorization of the relaxed morals involved in their very personal iterations of the falling from grace bit, it's just not a lifestyle I find very tolerable. Three of the gay men with HIV that I interact with are dear to me, and seeing them deal with their lot is heartbreaking, day after day. A couple of the HIV carriers lost it in the last decade and starting fucking around again, spreading the love and the bonus content, just because. One is now a brainwiped prescribed drugs zombie, the other one is on the run because he didn't fancy jail much. He might also be dead, which would probably be best as he'd just be bound to put satisfaction of his own sexual cravings over the lives of anyone unlucky enough to fall for his looks or his smooth talking. So, yeah, maybe I've seen too much of sexually liberated wonderland to really be much fun and very open to the blessings of an 'anything goes' approach.
As for the cheating bit - If I were to find out, I'd raise hell like you've never seen before, no matter who or what you stick your private parts into. So, that bit of my stance is all-inclusive and very much not discriminating in nature.
I just don't find the anal bit very appealing, just as my gay menfolk friendlies don't fancy boobs and pussy much. We still get along just fine, but the sex life bit is considered personal. If you wank/kiss/pet/fondle/hump in public or on facebook, I'll have you sacked before you climax. We don't ask whether people fancy men or women or children or animals when we hire, so we do not intend to find out, because it's not part of our business relationship.
In my personal life, I cook/eat/drink/hang out with gaysexuals of various self-declared denominations at least three times a week, and just about every weekend. I just consider the very idea of my man getting it on with another man to be a major turn-off. Knowing that, and my own temper, I don't feel like trying this situation on for size.
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