Your genitals do not have any bearing on your suitability for an asswhooping. However, your physical strength does determine the extent and viciousness of that potential asswhooping. If you, like a lot of women I know, are about half my size, I will not hit as hard as I can or be as vicious as I can be. It's not something I was taught, quite the contrary, overkill was the lesson my father, as a police officer, taught me. Neutralize the threat as quickly as possible. I try to practice conservation of violence, trying to determine the force necessary and limiting to that. I've never been put in that situation, the only "fights" I've been in have been with drunken morons at concerts. Most of the time, I just had to push them away and then disappear into the crowd.