Geek, nerd, clown, knowitall, wiseguy, fat guy, funny guy, funny guy because he's fat, emo, pessimist, realist, optimist, lazy, hard worker, self aware, blind fool, dull, creative, hippy, stoner, helper, controversialist, confirmist, social outcast, mr. social, good friend, worst friend, enemy, loveable, hateable, good with women, crap with women, the guy you can tell your darkest secrets, the guy you shouldn't tell your darkest secrets, thinker, do-er, autist...
For every person i know i am different and therefore seen different, as that trait of my personality is what they connected with the most compared to the others.
And i don't mind, as they are all true and thus i am all of them.
If people hold a grudge against me based on one of my traits, then all i can say is that despite their words being true, its still their opinion and thus their choice to put their focus into blowing up the situation and wasting their energy on it. This usually makes people mad, because its much easier to point thy finger at thy neighbour for blame, then to look into the mirror and point at yourself.
I have accepted that you can do your best to succeed, but you shouldn't be affraid to fail either. I learn from my faillure by knowing the meaning of it.
Withouth faillure every now and then, you won't realize your success, thus it become normal and its meaning will eventually fade.
You'll start to crave for more, because your body becomes addicted to the situation.
And since this is like trying to fill a bottomless well, you'll end up being a miserable person.
