Forgive if this sounds harsh, but, are you bringing up something to discuss. Or confiding in total strangers on the internet? One would hope the former...but it's ghastly close to the latter. Good day to you.
I agree about the money. Money doesn't have to be evil. I think that sex should be something that occurs after marriage, though.khantron said:Yeah then I guess that isn't me. I think sex is a fun activity among consenting adults and money is good so long as it is a means to survival and a bit comfort rather than an end in and of itself. I just thought I detected a religious understanding of morals, which my abortion comment would likely trigger.
My comment was that it is a legitimate medical procedure that is important to a woman's bodily autonomy.Mad World said:I agree about the money. Money doesn't have to be evil. I think that sex should be something that occurs after marriage.khantron said:Yeah then I guess that isn't me. I think sex is a fun activity among consenting adults and money is good so long as it is a means to survival and a bit comfort rather than an end in and of itself. I just thought I detected a religious understanding of morals, which my abortion comment would likely trigger.
I am a Christian, so a lot of what I believe it based off of Jesus' teachings. What's your abortion comment?
That's the pitfall of considering judging a bad thing. You can't say judging is a bad thing because you're judging people for judging.Majorlagger said:seriously i find it a little funny and ironic... so many people saying he is so judgmental... he is not saying other people are wrong for doing those things... just that they are probably wrong FOR HIM. he is looking for someone who has the same values as him if he has held himself to that standard it is not unreasonable or judgmental to want his future wife (girlfriend or what have you) to have held the same standard.
the ironic part... all of you Judging him because of the standard he has chose to hold himself and his future significant other to.
I was about to say the identical thing. Pretty hypocritical. Seriously people, the guy made no statements about non-virgins or people who drink/do drugs. Just because he doesn't share YOUR views doesn't mean he doesn't have the right to his own or that he's being a terrible person in creating some parameters he would like a potential partner to fall within. It's not even like he's being irrational about it, he's asking on a forum if that's even realistic.khantron said:That's the pitfall of considering judging a bad thing. You can't say judging is a bad thing because your judging people for judging.Majorlagger said:seriously i find it a little funny and ironic... so many people saying he is so judgmental... he is not saying other people are wrong for doing those things... just that they are probably wrong FOR HIM. he is looking for someone who has the same values as him if he has held himself to that standard it is not unreasonable or judgmental to want his future wife (girlfriend or what have you) to have held the same standard.
the ironic part... all of you Judging him because of the standard he has chose to hold himself and his future significant other to.
Yeah, I figured we'd be on different sides of the fetus vs woman debate.Mad World said:Edit: never mind; I see what you mean. I read the comment.
I don't hate you for your opinion on abortion. My stance is that it's simply wrong. I'm very against it.
whats so great about virginity? your not "corrupted" in anyway if you choose to have safe consenting sexDeath God said:
I was speaking mostly in terms of your first sentence. I never doubted your experience and am not calling YOU cliche. I'm just saying that a lot of phrases similar to the first sentence you wrote, like the whole "fish in the sea" thing, are all too familiar to me, and the more I hear them from people, the less I begin to really believe it happening for myself. Unhealthy self-doubt I must blame.delvin313 said:So..let me get this straight. I speak from experience that there is indeed hope since it happened to me, and your first instinct is that I am being cliche? That's pretty sad, dude.Xeraxis said:Not to be demeaning towards you, but do you know how many times I've heard that, or something similar, from people? It annoys me how often people pull out that cliche phrasing.delvin313 said:Don't give up hope, your ideal girl is out there somewhere. I had given up hope finding the girl of my dreams, and sure enough she appeared in my life after all. Whatever your standards may be, you will find her, given time and patience.
actually you really are changed psychologically when you have sex (especially the first time), though everyone is affected differently. Also, the actual act of sex is not immoral, but it really depends on the circumstances. I'm not going to get into a big long debate here, but I'd say casual sex is very immoral. For the sake of clarity, well say immoral means "socially and emotionally destructive"Vault101 said:whats so great about virginity? your not "corrupted" in anyway if you choose to have safe consenting sexDeath God said:
sex is not imoral
again I want to ask the same question I did beforeMad World said:World's a sick place. So many people don't seem to value morals. Too many people only care about sex. They don't know what true love is.
I'm not saying that a person shouldn't want to be with someone who has had sex, but this thread in general makes me think about how morally corrupt some people are.
Personally, I want a girl who is a virgin; I believe that sex should wait until after marriage. But if you truly love someone, I think that it's all right if they're not a virgin. Concentrate on the future; not the past.
Such a tease, making such an interesting moral proclamation. Unless your justification is religion, in which case it's boring again.axlryder said:actually you really are changed psychologically when you have sex, though everyone is affected differently. Also, the actual act of sex is not immoral, but it really depends on the circumstances. I'm not going to get into a big long debate here, but I'd say casual sex is very immoral.Vault101 said:whats so great about virginity? your not "corrupted" in anyway if you choose to have safe consenting sexDeath God said:
sex is not imoral
haha, the motivation for that statement is not religious at all.khantron said:Such a tease, making such an interesting moral proclamation. Unless your justification is religion in which case it's boring again.axlryder said:actually you really are changed psychologically when you have sex, though everyone is affected differently. Also, the actual act of sex is not immoral, but it really depends on the circumstances. I'm not going to get into a big long debate here, but I'd say casual sex is very immoral.Vault101 said:whats so great about virginity? your not "corrupted" in anyway if you choose to have safe consenting sexDeath God said:
sex is not imoral