You know, I have to say that I've found one of
the best ways to disarm someone who's trying to insult or irritate you is to, as Jim said, laugh at yourself.
Someone takes a jab at you about your birth being a mistake and that you were intended for the tissue instead? Come back with, "Yeah, I know. My father reminded me of that regularly. He even bitched that the alternative to my birth would have been just as bad since he was out of Puff's Plus."
Nothing's more annoying to a troll than laughing off their insults.
canadamus_prime said:
One does have to recognize the difference between light hearted ribbing of something and legitimate trolling. Although that can be difficult sometimes.
And to complicate things further: nowadays people often
start with a lighthearted ribbing, then, once it's become clear their jabs have bothered someone, resort to full-on trolling.
If there's one vice in this world that's reached extreme levels of prevalence, it's schadenfreude.