Absolutely not. Feminism claims to be about equality between the sexes, but if that were true, it should be called "equalism." "Feminism," on the other hand, implies some kind of superiority for women (whether or not any given feminist believes that or not). In the same way that I am not a masculinist, because I don't support special privileges for men, I am not a feminist, because I don't support special privileges for women.
I don't think the problem should be viewed as "making the sexes equal" - it should be "making sex irrelevant."
For example, imagine a physical fitness test is required for a job. Saying "the standards for men and women are the same" makes about as much sense as saying "the standard for blacks and whites are the same." The standards would merely be the same for everyone, there's no need to even make that distinction between the sexes by bringing it up.
I don't think the problem should be viewed as "making the sexes equal" - it should be "making sex irrelevant."
For example, imagine a physical fitness test is required for a job. Saying "the standards for men and women are the same" makes about as much sense as saying "the standard for blacks and whites are the same." The standards would merely be the same for everyone, there's no need to even make that distinction between the sexes by bringing it up.