At times I'm content with what I have, I don't feel rushed into getting into a relationship nor do I 'plan' on doing so, yet other times I feel saddened by having no one to share this part of my life with, my friends have been useless in that respect.
A relationship I can live without, what I truely feel unhappy about is the introverted lifestyle my friends lead; never going to the cinema, refusing to ever do something memorable, even shying away from going to another persons house. I know it sounds rather shallow but please know that I've tried so hard to give friends the opportunity to do something other than sit around all day and complain how they have nothing to do in their lives, I've tried for many years and they haven't decided to carry on.
I've never put them in a position where I force something on them, I've always gone about an activity with the thought that I could look back when I'm older and say I had done as much as possible as a kid. I wanted the same for them, I'd conjure up thoughts of them when they're older and questionning why they didn't do anything, I would only hope a true friend would do the same for me if I was in their position.
Now all ties I have with them are broken, nothing at all was said and they haven't even noticed: I've not spoken to any of them for over a month and they've made no attempt to talk.
I don't care much for a relationship, what I really require is good friends.
This thread should so become about setting up the escapist singletons. 
