You can have children with your FIRST cousins and not have retard babies. Morality 20 years ago was gays are sick twisted child rapists. Now they're viewed as normal people(as they should be)Deathleaper said:Lets say you have a distant cousin(3rd, 4th, or 5th) and the 2 of you find each other attractive, and both of you were close enough to actually have feelings for each other. You hang out, and the topic of it comes up, and your cousin is up to it. Would you do it if no one knew about it?
If she were my 3rd cousin, I may. 4th or 5th definitely, we're so distant it wouldn't even matter.
I'm asking because recently I was at a family gathering, and a lot of my relatives brought along some friends(ie, people not related to me), which wouldn't make it a "family gathering" anymore and just a party. I was sitting at a table and this girl I have never seen before sat next to me. I figured she was a friend of one of my relatives. Yadda yadda yadda, we flirt but then we find out we're related(3rd cousins). She still seems interested in me, and Vindictive God help me, I may go for it.
So what about you, Escapits?
Most people of even similar descent are likely within 20th cousins to you. Everyone is related at some point and third cousins aren't even close, so I son't really see a problem. It is interesting to note that the escapists can be really ridiculously open with weird beliefs but are extreme prudes in other senses.BakaSmurf said:That's beside the point, they're a cousin, a cousin is a family member, I don't find the prospect of sleeping with one of my family members very enjoyable.Deathleaper said:You do realize how little blood there is with a person and their 3rd cousin, right? 4th and greater you practically aren't related anymore.BakaSmurf said:No. Just, no. I don't care if it would just be for physical gratification, just no. Sex with family members is psychologically engrained in our brains to be viewed as fucked up because it's fucked up and shouldn't be done.
You said you wouldn't touch your tenth cousin, but your closest relative would be your great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-great-grandparents...If she is the same race as you, I wouldn't doubt that she'd be a tenth cousin.Vern said:It becomes not ok when I know about it. When we go to a family reunion and find out that, hypothetically, we both see someone and we both call him Uncle Bill. When there's a direct familial relation, that's when it becomes not ok. I realize that all humans are related to an extent, but there's a line where having direct living relatives crosses it.drosalion said:You're related to everyone.. soo, at what point is it ok? Not 10th cousin, 20th? At what line does it start becoming OK, because everyone in the world is related in some form.Vern said:No, no I wouldn't. If I knew I was related to someone, even if it was a 10th cousin, that would just be a thorn in the side of the whole relationship. So no.
And you know, my captcha is kind of amusing. "crossed fendles". That's what I'm going to call incestuous or cousin to cousin relationships. "Did you hear about Jane and Tom?" "Yeah, I heard they crossed fendles."