Ya then I guess that's just something I can't really sympathize with. Both me and my partner both watch and like porn and both me and her talk about other people we think are hot. (She has this weird facisination with wanting to fuck Bruce Willis).Meglin said:Just to add a small note about why some people dont like their partners watching porn: they are getting off to someone else other than you. they are watching another girl fuck (i cant put it any other way, there is no other term for it), and i know guys dont watch it to look at the other guys. they are watching it to see things get done to other girls. girls that are not you. if i made a porno (not that i ever will) and my partner was only watching that, i would have no problem what so ever with that. its worse than them perving on other girls in front of you. its almost like they see a hot girl at the shops with you there and start making comments on how good she looks and how her boob are huge and how they would love to grope boobs like that. or ur girlfriend going on about how this guys penis looks huge in those pants he is wearing. same type of thing.
yes i know that wasnt a small note.
I mean you do acknowledge that while in a relationship it is completely normal to still find other people attractive right? That sense of attraction doesn't shut off once your with someone. Whats important is the difference between something like watching porn and fucking someone else.