You sound more like a hopeful romantic to me. ;-)Ossian said:Yeah, what you said, I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for a relationship, I'm a hopeless romanticMetal Brother said:
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Sounds more accurate I guess lol.Metal Brother said:You sound more like a hopeful romantic to me. ;-)Ossian said:Yeah, what you said, I'm not looking for sex, I'm looking for a relationship, I'm a hopeless romanticMetal Brother said:
Seems to be the case with me also, except for actually getting one. I can understand other people's relationships better then them it seems. I think it comes from sitting around and thinking too much from all the the time alone I have.arc1991 said:
I'm in the same boat, only 19, but I've never done anything with a girl.
I think this has more to do with me, than anything else but. I just don't normally see the appeal of a relationship, except for the sex... though it's not like you need a relationship for that, or that a certain type of relationship can't be based on that alone.
I think this has more to do with me, than anything else but. I just don't normally see the appeal of a relationship, except for the sex... though it's not like you need a relationship for that, or that a certain type of relationship can't be based on that alone.
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Is that a good thing... being jeremy kyle? i mean his shows are hilarious but still... on that note have you watched the chase and status video for the song let you go... i would...
OP: i wouldn't worry about it buddy, i've had two girls who i have had relationships with and i can tell you it's not a race. you need to find a circle of mates try to join a sports team or something like that. and then go out with them. it'll all come with time...
I'm 26, and I had a "girlfriend" when I was in the eight grade. We held hands like...once, cause she didn't want to. Then she broke up with me because I wouldn't hold her hand. ?
Yeah, anyway. I don't really get out much, just mostly go to work and stay home, so I don't meet many women. I moved alot as a kid so I didn't get to grow up anywhere, so making friends was always something I had to start over at. I'm actually pretty good at it, but I don't really know how to talk to women I'm attracted to, much less ever ask them for more than a facebook. I'm still expecting a strong willed woman to end up asking me out. She's also gonna be hot and rich. And she'll have laser vision!
?Yeah, anyway. I don't really get out much, just mostly go to work and stay home, so I don't meet many women. I moved alot as a kid so I didn't get to grow up anywhere, so making friends was always something I had to start over at. I'm actually pretty good at it, but I don't really know how to talk to women I'm attracted to, much less ever ask them for more than a facebook. I'm still expecting a strong willed woman to end up asking me out. She's also gonna be hot and rich. And she'll have laser vision!
Girls can be awkward too, ya know. Me? I'm technically in a relationship but nothing has happened because we're both too shy.
And Even where I am, I can't ask anyone out because I have no gaydar and I'm afraid that it will ruin friendships.
And Even where I am, I can't ask anyone out because I have no gaydar and I'm afraid that it will ruin friendships.
I think lots of people don't understand that things don't happen if you don't make them happen. 'Waiting' for a girl/guy to come up and ask will almost certainly get you no where, you have to be more outgoing and look.
It isn't really uncommon for people not to have a relationship for ages, it's just some people (the confident ones) tend to exaggerate their experiences and make the less confident ones seem like they're failing.
Personally, I'm 16 and am currently in my first proper relationship and I feel awkward a lot, but some girls like shy guys
It isn't really uncommon for people not to have a relationship for ages, it's just some people (the confident ones) tend to exaggerate their experiences and make the less confident ones seem like they're failing.
Personally, I'm 16 and am currently in my first proper relationship and I feel awkward a lot, but some girls like shy guys
Yeah thats my problem, but at least I know it. I never go anywhere. When I do, I don't usually talk to people until I know them well enough. I've always hoped that some confident Texan woman would find me charmingly witty on the internet and ask me out instead, removing all obstacles. But I'd have to be witty. Or charming.Usurpurus said:I think lots of people don't understand that things don't happen if you don't make them happen. 'Waiting' for a girl/guy to come up and ask will almost certainly get you no where, you have to be more outgoing and look.
It isn't really uncommon for people not to have a relationship for ages, it's just some people (the confident ones) tend to exaggerate their experiences and make the less confident ones seem like they're failing.
Personally, I'm 16 and am currently in my first proper relationship and I feel awkward a lot, but some girls like shy guys
I never was in a relationship either and have no interest in one. I would have to expend a lot of time an energy with a high probability of humiliation and sorrow being the end result for something of little to no value. If I wanted to lose a lot of money with very low odds, I'd just play the lottery more.
Why would anyone want to get into a relationship with a dumb-dumb woman? It's treated more like a necessity nowadays.. If you go like, I've no girlfriend everyone looks at you weird >.>
. One guy even questioned my sexuality!?
Hasn't it happened to any of you fellow bachelors out there?
[sub]no offense meant to any ladies out there, especially the pretty ones[/sub]
. One guy even questioned my sexuality!?
Hasn't it happened to any of you fellow bachelors out there?
[sub]no offense meant to any ladies out there, especially the pretty ones[/sub]